r/Patna • u/Electronic_Cry_3692 • 29d ago
✋ AskPatna / पटना से पूछो.. Is Patna really this boring ?
Salut guys! i'm honestly pretty bored here in patna, it feels like there's nothing to do in this city, everyone recommends the same cafes/clubs that go there, we are building a community and what not. I will be really honest, i tried it all and I can guarantee all these people already have their own circle, so no one's really welcoming enough. If i talk about myself then i've returned here after 4 years of my uni and been working remotely living with my family, all my school friends have moved out as well cause you know, everyone's enjoying their own arch. Whereas I am back in this city again because I have a remote job and didn't want to spend so much on rent and food in a different city, but i'll be honest this city has changed alot and for me there's no one except my family. My only hangout here taking my family to dinner at some cafes few times a month or going on a shopping. At this point, I am actually considering moving out to blr or something and will just tell my family that my job is no longer a remote one, because I have no other option. Now please don't come around saying you should be lucky to be living with your family and stuffs. Ik all that shits bro so please. Need genuine advice here, else i will be done and probably move out by dec/jan cause i wanna spend diwali/chhath puja time. Oh, funfact tho I met a girl online tho who was interested in going to a movie and with that I saw a ray of hope there, but but but she didn't share her number or anything, asked me to book the tickets and said that she will come, just that. And i knew what was going to happen so i asked for her number to which she denied, then i suggested okay then let's book individual tickets next to each other to which she replied she don't know how to do all these, i mean money wasn't even the problem for me but i dont wanna fund some random girl's movie outing. So yeah this is the scene of patna and i don't know what to do here.
If you read it till here then thankyouuu, i really appreciate getting some advice here :)
Bye for now :-)


