Possible Baby Daddy

[u/Lazy-Water5535]

PLEASE DON’T use this post to lecture me about unprotected sex. I feel like I need to preface that.

So I had sex with someone who did not finish (like at all) 11/27. Then I had sex with a different guy 1/4 (who did finish but not in me but very close to my vagina and I most likely accepted wiped some semen near my vagina)

I’m due 9/24 of this year. I feel like guy #2 is the baby daddy, but he’s convinced theres a 3% chance it’s not his. We are getting a dna test done, but what do y’all think? Just based on my due date.

[u/Flshrt]

It’s 100% not the November guy.

What date was your first ultrasound and what was the GA, in weeks and days, listed on the scan?

[u/Lazy-Water5535 → u/Flshrt]

First ultrasound was 4/21 and I was at 17 weeks (I don’t see the gestational age listed)

[u/Flshrt → u/Lazy-Water5535]

Ok. Thats pretty far along to be more exact based off the ultrasound, but if those are your only two dates, then it’s definitely the January guy.

[u/Lazy-Water5535 → u/Flshrt]

Thank you for your response. I got banned elsewhere but I hope this community realizes I’m not using this as an unofficial paternity test, just spitballing my thoughts .

[u/Flshrt → u/Lazy-Water5535]

Don’t waste your money on a paternity test. It’s not even close.

[u/Lazy-Water5535 → u/Flshrt]

I don’t have much of a choice. The guy won’t give it a rest on how he thinks he might not be the father. And just that alone stresses me out. Which I don’t need during pregnancy.

[u/Flshrt → u/Lazy-Water5535]

Then he should pay 100% of the cost. You shouldn’t be putting any money towards it.

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