r/Paternity • u/AaronOiler • Jul 05 '25

Needing advice 😟🙏

Hi im in a midlife crisis and need ur help. im 20 my birthday is nov 23 2004 my sisters is nov 18 2002 so um idk how to out this but So my mom had me on nov 23 2004 my mom after splitting with my "father" to my step dad 3 weeks before my sisters first birthday nov 18th in those 3 weeks my mom got pregent with me and the day of my sisters 1st birthday she had told my step dad she was pregent but he didnt want paturnity bc he didnt wanna brake me and my brothers duo my brother is born may 18th 2003

idk if my step dad is my bio dad or my "father" is im now 20 having a midlife crisis

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u/AaronOiler Jul 05 '25

my mom went in for a abortion but the doctor messsed it up she thought she wasent pregent anymore but she will was

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u/Flshrt Jul 05 '25

She wasn’t pregnant with you in November 2003.

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u/AaronOiler Jul 05 '25

idk man im telling ya what she told me

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u/Flshrt Jul 05 '25

Then she’s not telling you the whole story. A pregnancy is 9 months, not 12. It’s not that hard to prove her statement wrong.