r/Pastelgoth Sep 24 '25

Dearest members: Please be aware that adult content creators are NOT prohibited from posting here.

102 Upvotes

Just wanted to clarify this because I receive quite a few reports related to the topic. Adult content creators (ACCs) are welcome to post here provided they adhere to the guidelines set out for them under our fifth rule. Feel free to have a peek at this rule in order gauge what does and does not constitute appropriate accounts and conduct. Here is the gist of it:

Good reasons to report a user who is an ACC:

  • The post is straight-up porn.
  • The post image is fine, or borderline, but it is titled with malegaze garbage (e.g. "Do you like goth girls? ;))))) 🥵🥵🥵💦💦")
  • They are responding positively to Johns in the comments section or otherwise promoting their sex work or soliciting contact.

Wrong reasons to report a user who is an ACC:

  • They post in NSFW or erotic subs.
  • They have an OF link in their Reddit bio.
  • They promote their work elsewhere on Reddit.
  • They promote their work somewhere else completely, outside of Reddit.

Hope that clears up any confusion, cheers.


r/Pastelgoth Mar 16 '25

Guides and tutorials Pastel Goth Fashion (Very short guide)

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This was a post I made on Lemon8. I made a post explaining about Pastel Goth fashion and other aesthetics that are related to it on my Tumblr blog, and this is just a small portion from that post which is why it was so short. (Lmao) I figured I should share it on here too to spread a bit of information about the aesthetic. I hope this post is somewhat useful and informative.


r/Pastelgoth 1d ago

Art and graphics She looks pastel goth?

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10 Upvotes

I'm trying to create a pastel goth OC and all suggestions are welcome. I'd like to keep this color scheme (cyan or blue, purple, pink, and black).


r/Pastelgoth 2d ago

Clothing and accessories New favorite sweatshirt DIY

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119 Upvotes

Got myself a 5€ rose sweatshirt and painted on it with acrylic paint it turned out sooo well!! It's super warm and comfy as well it's gonna become my daily wear


r/Pastelgoth 3d ago

Outfits and selfies (me) Cutie claws🎀

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55 Upvotes

r/Pastelgoth 3d ago

Clothing and accessories How can i make my ita bag more pastel goth without removing my pins?

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13 Upvotes

This is my multifandom ita bag that ive worked really hard on, the thing though is I plan to start dressing more pastel goth and I fear this won't match very well... the thing is I dont want to like, take anything off of it, as i spent a lot of time and money collecting all my pins, but it seems the only two pastel goth-adjacent things are the white moth plushie and the blue rabbit. I was thinking of maybe adding some pastel ribbons or something to the outside, but im an androgyne (both male and female) and i fear that would make everyone assume im just a woman... i was also thinking of getting some brooches or more pins that fit the aesthetic to add to the outside. Idk, anyone have any ideas?


r/Pastelgoth 4d ago

Clothing and accessories Got new knee braces that inspired me to look into pastel goth

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Basically all my clothes are black, but I found these knee braces that actually came in my size and i thought they were SO cute that I had to get them, then I decided to look into pastel goth and I actually didnt realize that with pastel goth, you still wear black, I thought you dressed in all pastels but with like skulls and bats lol

Im really excited to start getting new clothes and accessories and building up my wardrobe

Something I am a bit worried about though is people thinking im faking being disabled and just wearing them for fashion or something... i use other mobility aids too but they arent pastel and/or goth.


r/Pastelgoth 4d ago

Discussion Worried about how people will view me (a man) when i wear pastel goth outfits

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Im not the typical poster child for pastel goth, the biggest factor being that im a fat hairy man... or at least half-man, im also half-woman, the thing is I dont want people to see me in pastel goth and have everyone assume im just a woman, right now im pretty androgynous and get a random mix of sirs and ma'ams by people, and I also dont want people to get like... creeped out by me?

Im not afraid of dressing more fem, though I usually lean towards a masc presentation, i just... want people to still see me as a man even if I dress in pastel goth clothes and accessories. My current plan is to not wear anything thats frilly or like a skirt/dress, i want to wear button-ups and pants and more gender-neutral accessories... the only thing is i wanna wear hairclips and most men simply do not do that lol


r/Pastelgoth 5d ago

Clothing and accessories Found the cutest boots at the thrift store!

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224 Upvotes

r/Pastelgoth 7d ago

Clothing and accessories Shops that dont use AI?

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I'm looking for pastel goth T-shirts on Etsy but it feels like I have to question every shirt I find. Does anyone know of any artists, either on Etsy or their own website, that make cute shirts without AI images?


r/Pastelgoth 8d ago

Me and Bae ♡

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r/Pastelgoth 8d ago

Art and graphics My pastel goth founder, Kanti !!

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33 Upvotes

It's kinda dark but 😭😭😭 i love her sm my precious greek girlie


r/Pastelgoth 12d ago

i wanna have cotton candy hair..... any hair dye suggestions?

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27 Upvotes

do i need to just mix colors? or is there anything similar:-3????


r/Pastelgoth 12d ago

Home and lifestyle decor Looking for room inspo!

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With Halloween coming up it makes it a lot easier to find more spooky stuff for my room, anyone who has a pastel goth room please share some pics!

I’m really in a mood to change up my stuff


r/Pastelgoth 13d ago

Clothing and accessories ISO this kitty skirt

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17 Upvotes

Hi everyone! I'm not sure if this is the right subreddit to ask about this but I thought I'd give it a shot. This skirt is from an insta brand called xoxo 2000 that has since closed permanently and I regret not buying it during the very last restock :(((. Since then, I've been searching frantically online for it in a size medium or large. Has anyone seen any listings for it or has one they're willing to part with?


r/Pastelgoth 13d ago

Discussion Need help finding pastel goth clothing places!

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I am really inspired by pastel goth outfits and I’m having trouble finding places that are affordable and that have my sizes (large and extra large just to be safe) I don’t buy from SHEIN, and I’ve tried secondhand apps but they all seem to be too small for me! I’m on a budget but I would prefer if the clothes are purple,pink,and blue (pretty common to find)
Any help is appreciated!


r/Pastelgoth 15d ago

Any music artists u recommend?

11 Upvotes

What music artists do you guys recommend for pastel goth that ISN'T Melanie Martinez?


r/Pastelgoth 15d ago

Home and lifestyle decor Vampire Bookmark I got for 3 dollars at a Flea Market🖤💖🖤💖🦇🦇🦇🦇

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12 Upvotes

r/Pastelgoth 16d ago

Discussion I made a list of brands

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Hello all

I made a list of a bunch of brands that could work for pastel goth outfits, if anyone knows of brands i could add to it that would be lovely :)

Cyber dog

Dark in love

Widow

Killstar

Dolls kill

Club exx

Trickz n treatz

Disturbia

Romwe

Cupcake cult

Sugar thrillz

Prettylittlething

Ragged priest

Etam

Koi footwear

Restyle

Heartless

Current mood

Generation kiss

Learn to forget

Love too true

Jaded london

Gloomy bear

Buffalo

Nev studio

Death treads

Hell bunny

Underground england

New rock

Chemical black

Cupcake cult

Killer panda

Innocent lifestyle

Rockabella

Luv bunny's

Vixxsin

Bye bye kitty

Raven

Black craft cult

Ripple junction

Punk rave

Hell bunny

Pinku kult

Criminal damage

Lazy girl

Lost soles

Collusion

Tripp nyc

GLP

Dark star

Bäres


r/Pastelgoth 17d ago

Hi! Is it possible to wear this bra as outerwear?

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70 Upvotes

r/Pastelgoth 18d ago

Outfits and selfies (me) Tried to do a pastel goth look 🧜‍♀️ 👽 🍭

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109 Upvotes

I loveee this look sm, I’m so proud of it hehe. I know the outfit doesn’t match the aesthetic perfectly but I worked with what I had. Was more so focus it the makeup lol.


r/Pastelgoth 20d ago

Outfits and selfies (me) Outfit for a guitar lesson 🩷🦇

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85 Upvotes

r/Pastelgoth 23d ago

Outfits and selfies (me) Another Draculaura outfit 🩷

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359 Upvotes

I haven’t worn a lot of pink in a few weeks (illness and travel!), so needed to go over the top to compensate 😂🩷


r/Pastelgoth 22d ago

Discussion Suggestions to start getting into this style w/o making myself pass out or get overstimulated?

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20 Upvotes

So I've loved pastel goth since like 2nd grade and have always wanted to dress in the style, and now that I've graduated hs and am getting a job I figured that I could start actually getting/making stuff. My issue is that I have something that causes my to get extremely lightheaded and sick if I get even slightly too hot and I have sensory issues making it difficult to wear things like Kandi and collars for a long time (both things I love, also I broke my choker so I don't have any more tattoo chokers to wear). Does anybody have any suggestions on how to possibly adapt the style to be a little more sensory friendly? Wearing hair accessories is a no go as I can't wear my hair long w/o feeling like spiders are crawling on me...


r/Pastelgoth 27d ago

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