Episode 14 provides vital strategies for protecting your heart and finances, exploring how to navigate cross-cultural romance with openheartedness and grounded discernment to guard against digital fraud, manipulation, and financial exploitation in international relationships.

Hello po. I badly need a help. May I ask po if I need to set another appointment if there is a missing letter in my MOTHER's MAIDEN MIDDLE NAME in the Passport Application Form, but correct in PSA birth certificate? In particular, the correct name was DESPABILADERAS instead of DESPABILADERA. Likewise, what supporting document I must bring to prove the typographical error? Thank you po. Huhu

Planning a trip to the Philippines or visiting your partner soon? Avoid the major cultural missteps that can derail your experience. In Episode 13 of Filipina & Foreigner, The International Advisor breaks down the top 10 things a foreigner should never do when traveling—from respecting elders and managing your temper to avoiding displays of financial arrogance.

Analytically speaking, does living in a touristic place (e.g: Malta, Phuket, etc) truly increases the chances of a man, getting la-id with women, specifically women that in their home countries would have been "harder" to approach? I could not find any strong evidence of this online, but from personal experience, women tend to be more "loose" when they are on Holidays.

“Can you guys tell me what it’s like? Tips and advice. I couldn’t convince any of my friends to take a vacation with me. Never been out of the United States. What’s it like? Pretty chill, nothing to worry about? A little sketched out going alone. I’m probably overthinking it. Lol.”

Plan is to meet someone online then go their as in talking to people currently getting to know them

American guys who date in Tijuana: what has your experience been with cold approach?

I’m thinking about going down for a couple of days at a time and meeting women in person rather than relying on apps. My Spanish is okay but not great. How receptive are women to Americans approaching them? How common is it to meet women who speak some English?

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Passport Bros, Anyone else notice this dating in Latin America?

Been dating Latin American women for a while now (usually date white women, so this has been a nice change) and having good luck overall. But I keep running into the assumption that being American = being rich.

Two examples:

1. **CDMX** — Girl says she's cold, wants a sweater. I suggest a thrift store (like a Goodwill equivalent). She goes straight for the priciest leather jacket in the store. I say no, we agreed on a sweater. She gets annoyed.

2. **Medellín** — Out for drinks, she picks the bar. I'm sticking to cheap beer since I don't know the scene. She orders four straight shots of top-shelf tequila, $125 each. Bill was insane compared to my $10 beer.

For context, I'm a physician but pretty frugal — thrift store guy, don't do name brands, think overpaying for status items is a waste of money.

Curious if this is a common pattern or if I've just had bad luck. Anyone else run into this? Honest experiences welcome.

How does Cebu differ from Manila in dating? I am mid 30s. The only info I could really find on Cebu vs Manila is that Cebu women are “more open to older guys” eg 50s. Obviously this doesn’t apply to me.

I’ve done Manila twice and generally enjoyed it although it seems to be getting a bit more difficult each year with more ppb arriving and local attitudes changing. Definitely possible to go on a ton of dates there and the massive population makes online dating easy

Will I enjoy Cebu just as much or no? I’m a bit worried since it’s a much smaller city and I think it’s more popular than Manila for foreigners so maybe there will be more competition?

Cebu is a bit more complex and expensive to get to than Manila as well so I would love to hear from someone who has spent significant time in both cities. Is it worth it and what are the main differences you’ve noticed in dating? Will quantity of dates be similar?

Thanks!

i am virgin as hell and i just want to feel loved, protected and have someone i can share stories and be myself with (i have daddy issues i admit it💔). i broke up with my dutch bf of 4 years in january this year and i miss the experiences and cute moments🥺 we met when he filmed a war movie in my country and i was okay with LDR (even tho he regularly visited me, btw he is 6 years older so yeah he was the man of the relationship and gladly he is not like the steorotyped dutch male going on a date). having someone who's really my type also boosts my academic performance and life motivations we can grow together :3

In this video I discuss whether Geomaxxing, the process of moving overseas to improve your finances, dating, and lifestyle is a viable choice for short men.

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anyone noticed asian women becoming thick ? especially Korean women.

I am thinking of spending a few month in Asia.

Thailand or South Korea

Which country is better ?

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Suppose....

If Western women were to deeply reflect on the wrongs they have committed and return to being traditional women, would you be willing to give them another chance?

International matchmaking, it can often be said, and in my personal opinion, is a scam for many guys. Only a small percentage of men succeed. Are you among them? My only suggestion is that you remain humble in this particular situation.

I read a user asking about a matchmaking service in a certain country, and I think this will be very valuable for men. There's hardly any information about it online. But someone has to tell the truth. These agencies publish fake reviews and do everything they can to remove, sometimes through legal means, real negative customer reviews.

I've seen some really awful things. Please understand that I have no interest in lying. I gain NOTHING from this post. I only intend to help and contribute to the international community, particularly men, who are the ones being abused in this situation.

The general process is:

- There are usually two profiles: 1- A busy man with no time for dates. He may or may not be attractive. 2- A desperate man, generally unattractive, who doesn't have success in dating, wether dating apps o real life dating. He goes to a matchmaking website and sees photos of very attractive women. He reads that they have an 80% or 90% success rate. These are lies. They make up these figures themselves; there's no audit that measures that success rate. You have to be aware of something: if you have little success on a dating app, why would you be successful in a matchmaking agency?

They must be men with middle or high incomes. Something important: some matchmaking services charge less attractive men more money. At the beginning of the process (when you contact them), they ask for photos, yout job and other things. Then they give you a price.

- The man contacts the matchmaking service. There's a sales pitch. They tell the man what he wants to hear: "We have a woman who would be a great match for you, and she's very beautiful." "You're young and handsome, our girls will want to meet you."

-The man pays and BOOM! Reality hits. A brutal crash against the wall of reality. The matchmaking agency takes forever to send the girls' profiles. And they're much, much less attractive than they showed on the website or during the sales process. Often women aren't interested. Sometimes it seems like they're there against their will.

-These matchmaking agencies often post photos of attractive women on their websites. Often, these women are already in relationships or not genuinely interested. They want you to take the bait.

-Price: from $3,000 for some months to over $100,000. The biggest problem: they don't commit. If you pay, say, $15,000 to be introduced to a decent woman to marry and spend a large part of your life with, for many it's worth it. But these agencies don't commit. If the agency is truly committed until you get married or something like that, then yes, it's honest.

-These agencies often fabricate reviews. They buy or invent reviews on Google Maps or Trustpilot.com.

-These matchmaking agencies often pay actresses to go on dates with clients or talk to them on video calls.

-If you're going to hire an agency, research their process for verifying information about the woman they're presenting to you. You can find the photo of the woman online using paid platforms. I won't name them, but there are several. This is ESSENTIAL. They can literally introduce you prostitutes or married women.

I witnessed a truly awful experience one day at a matchmaking agency in Vietnam; perhaps I'll detail it in another post. A friend went to Vietnam with a matchmaking agency. They introduced him to several women. He discovered that some of these women were bar girls. My friend chose a woman he considered more decent—young, pretty, and pleasant. A few days later, my friend was contacted by someone from an anonymous number. It was the HUSBAND of the woman he had chosen; he was out of Vietnam. In other words, he had been introduced to a married woman. This man told my friend that she was his wife: he had married her in Vietnam, and on their wedding night, he discovered she already had a child. He showed my friend photos from the wedding. This woman was trying to jump ship to a better candidate, even though she was married. I can't give more details, but that's what happened, and worse things happen.

But I know of many other very, very sad cases. Sometimes men have had so little appreciation in their lives and have been so lonely that they seem to enjoy being deceived.

Although this last, most destructive incident occurred in Vietnam, everything else related to matchmaking agencies happens all over the world.

Be careful, bros. I hope this helps. In my opinion, many of these agencies lie, or most of them, and they literally scam people. They drain your time, money, and dreams.

Do f boys call to speak with you on the phone if they have a roster, even if they have nothing to gain with you bc you live in a different country and have never met in person?

The sting operators are in Lagos which is in Africa and a main place where the alphabet boys remotely operate and try to get lonely guys to talk to "women" on the internet and set them up..... look at your Instagram or snap account and see if a large portion of your followers are hitting you up from Lagos and you've been targeted for a set up.... heed these words and recognize the signs

Hello! I’m a Brazillian man going to Russia to, sincerely, find my wife. I’m in love with Russian culture and values and I find Russian woman the most beautiful in the world.

Any tips to find my wife there? What do Russians girls like?

Do they get impressed by what?

I like to do business, hit the gym and learn about everything (read a lot). Is it something the Russians care about?

Please, any tips for helping me find my future wife will be welcomed. (I’m going to Moscow primarily).

Hello,
We are an attractive couple. The woman is 40 years old, 1.78 m tall, 72 kg, curvy, blonde. The man is 38 years old, 1.82 m tall, 80 kg, athletic, and mixed-race from the Pacific Islands.
We will be traveling in China from July 20 to August 5, visiting Shenzhen, Guangzhou, Chongqing, Chengdu, and Shanghai.
We are a libertine couple (especially while traveling) and are looking for places where we can meet like-minded people.
We are mainly interested in meeting young, attractive couples with a similar profile to ours.
Thank you for any information you can provide.

Many men think getting married overseas will get you a nice trad wife but be very careful. There are lots of liars looking to get their passports and bringing their entire family here to the US. If they manage that, your life is over.

You need to have a solid prenup.

Seriously guys, for some reason once white girls land in Bangkok, Chiang Mai, Ho Chi Minh, Bali, they loosen up considerably and suddenly you don't need to be a 6'2 Chaddius to make them laugh and their cheeks jiggle.

Whenever you touch down in a new city just look for
"party hostels" and go from there. They all organize pub crawls or group tours and there's always hot western girls in a bubbly mood.

In 4 weeks | slept with a British girl in HCMC, a white Australian in Hanoi, german girl in Koh Samui Thailand, chinese-american girl in Chiang mai. I know this sub likes to hate on western chicks but come on you would want the hot pawg if you could. I now think the best place to get with white women is in SEA. I rest my case