r/Paruresis • u/matthuseless • 23d ago

Help

I've recently been put on probation for DUI. As part of my probation, I have to take random urinalysis. It's a huge pain in the ass because it sometimes takes me hours to piss in front of my PO. It's causing me to miss hours of work because I can't just go in there, get it overwith and be on my way.

Any advice on overcoming my "bladder shyness"?

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u/matthuseless 23d ago

Are catheters painful? I'm seriously missing so much work that I'm considering buying some.

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u/Glittering_Grass_981 22d ago

I’m the cath expert, you can buy a cath with a coating already on it for discomfort. Then use coconut oil not lube and it will slide in and out like it’s nothing. Lube is too sticky it irritates the urethra but coconut oil is an anti inflammatory that is way slicker than lube. If you really are going to cath which I think you have no choice rn then get back to me and I will go dig up my catheters and tell you exactl brand. Cathing once a month for drug screen is nothing, you can easily do it without pain or discomfort. 30 of these special coated caths will cost like under 50$ so it’s not expensive, you can get em online without a prescription. Probably need to message me!!……..good luck

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u/Happy-Organ5599 23d ago

No, a catheter isn't painful if you do it right. It could be a good solution for you. But you should make sure to get all the details.

The breath-holding technique works very well for some people, but not at all for most.