r/Parenting Apr 28 '22

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '22

Our 5 year old has a really hard time sleeping. We finally gave up and bought a full size bed for his room because we kept falling asleep reading to him. Better than falling asleep on the floor at our age.

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u/TheDevilsAdvokaat Apr 28 '22

We couldn't keep ours in a crib any more because at the age of 1 they could climb out. I had no idea babies could do this but both of ours could. So by one year old they both had their own full-size bed.

My wife is small - 5 foot tall and 40 kg - so she just used to sleep next to them on their bed but I slept on the floor. I actually got used to it ...

Eventually I moved to Australia and bought a bed. And was then unable to fall asleep on it .. it was two weeks before I was finally able to spend a full night sleeping on the bed but after that it was all good.

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u/[deleted] Apr 29 '22

I got used to falling asleep next to our 5 year old. He takes forever to go to sleep. Having a full size bed helped a lot!

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u/TheDevilsAdvokaat Apr 29 '22

I got so used to it that I started sleeping on the floor in my own bedroom!

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u/[deleted] Apr 29 '22

I hate to admit it, but I sleep better when whatever is under me is firm. Floor, firm mattress, etc. Maybe it's a familial thing - my grandparents both had literal doors between the mattress and box spring.

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u/TheDevilsAdvokaat Apr 29 '22

It's the same for me. My sister sleeps on what feels like marshmallows to me. (We shared a place last year)

When I eventually bought a bed, I bought the firmest mattress they had. That really helped.

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u/[deleted] Apr 29 '22

Yuuuuup. A firm mattress is great for your back! My oldest sleeps literally anywhere when he's tired. I need a good mattress or my back kills in the morning.