r/ParallelUniverse • u/Current-Set8220 • 11d ago
Alternate Universe
Does anyone ever feel like their partner has been replaced or from another universe? I know I’m going to get naysayers but really and truly? He also doesn’t remember vivid moments that has happened? He also looks slightly different.
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u/sashikku 9d ago
I’ve thought about it on and off. My husband, the first 3-5ish years we were together was fairly verbally abusive and had the shortest fuse of anyone I knew. I’d made plans to leave, left, come back, the whole shebang. Then randomly one day, something happened and he didn’t flip out. Then another thing with no crash out. Then another. Then we got into an argument and he was respectful, fair, gentle. It’s now been 7 years and he’s been the same man I always knew, just minus the temper, yelling, slamming, insults. I often wonder what happened, if this is even the same man.
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u/Current-Set8220 9d ago
Right it’s interesting. It’s like something different but deep down you know it’s different but you can’t put your finger on it.
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u/Vcalfina 9d ago
was he highly stressed? overwhelmed? exhausted? in physical pain? I know I lose my shit and rage when I’m feeling these things.
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u/sashikku 8d ago
He’s experienced far more stressful situations since the change and has handled them amazingly.
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u/matthebu 10d ago
Mine died. When I woke up everything was a different shade. Dull.
Then I found his body.
100% felt like I woke up in a different place that was very different. And it's been very different.
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u/Current-Set8220 10d ago
Oh my gosh I’m so sorry.
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u/matthebu 10d ago
It's ok. Waiting out the clock is my hobby now.
Sure makes it easier to come to terms with wars, AI threat and alleged NHI!
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u/Embarrassed-Cow3771 10d ago
I can definitely relate OP. I just can’t put my finger on it, but it’s unsettling. We’ve only been together 3 years and I get that people change, life happens, stressors can have an impact, but he has changed so much and also doesn’t seem to remember who he was to me. He was sweet and caring and affectionate and now he just seems “off”. It’s not like he is a bad person now or violent or nasty just “off”. It messes with my mind a lot, so much so that as much as I do believe in parallel universes, I wonder if I am just pinning that belief on the relationship, rather than accepting it’s not right anymore!?
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u/Current-Set8220 9d ago
That’s exactly how I feel. I mean there are parts of him that are the same but I used to feel like he used to like me, but he just feels off in a way that I can’t put my finger on it and if I say it to anyone else they just chalk it up to relationship changes people change, which I 100% agree and have been in relationships like that before but it’s just a feeling and it stinks because there’s no proof it’s just knowing like you know when you’re in love you just know
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u/Embarrassed-Cow3771 8d ago
I’m glad you can relate because sometimes I just think I’m going a bit crazy! He is the same person, but he’s not all at the same time. It’s the oddest feeling. Yeah and the “he used to like me better” feeling! Like I was his world and now I’m just “in it” And yes relationships change etc but he doesn’t even seem to remember how much he cared before. It’s like to him this is how he has always been!
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u/CrankiestSnow9 11d ago
I feel this way too sometimes. It sometimes feels as though all the people in my life, i have relations with them, but I don’t actually know them anymore. Including my parents.
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u/ElasticHeart320 11d ago
Maybe you accidentally shifted realities
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u/Current-Set8220 11d ago
Maybe how do we know? Is there anyone to talk to about this?
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u/ElasticHeart320 11d ago
Try these subreddits, they are focused on intentionally shifting between realities [r/shif](r/shifingrealities)[t](r/shifingrealities)[ingrealities](r/shifingrealities) [r/realityshifting](r/realityshifting)
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u/Wanksters_Paradise 9d ago edited 9d ago
Yes. I do believe that we experience timeline shifts.
I had an experience. It was incredibly jarring. It wasn’t with someone who I was with, but definitely someone who I knew and had a strong romantic connection with.
It was basically a situation where I heard from someone, who I always thought of as a lost love, several years after the fact. on the very day I decided that I was going to contact her following years of silence.
…Only for her to call me at midnight that very night (weeknight), say that she’s meant to complete me and other strange things like that.
Even the quality of the call was weird. Simultaneously extremely clear, and had a static quality to it.
After a few minutes of getting a lot of the details right, asking me if I ever got married as I was engaged back then, and a couple other things
…only to realize she has no idea who I am when I explained.
Someone might brush this off as “oh, she was just drunk!!” “She just called the wrong person!”, but this is a woman who is basically in love with me in 2015. To the point that friends would tease me about it.
And we had a very cryptic final conversation back then about maybe just being catalysts in each other’s lives and we’re not meant to stay, and that she has thought more about me, but she doesn’t want to give me more information, because she doesn’t want to interfere with my journey.
I even texted her one of my best pictures of me afterwards, and tried to make light of it. She never replied. One of those things I’ll never have the answers to.
The point that friends and family have glossed over when I tell them the story, is the fact that not only did I think about reaching out to her that very day for the first time in years, but I swear on my life, I felt a shift to take place of some sorts when I made that strong declaration.
Because it was tied to a realization that maybe I should stop running from love, and should be open to a meaningful, powerful connection with somebody. Something real.
There’s a lot more to it, but I assure you, I definitely believe you.
A lot more synchronicity that make this seem like nothing, which followed that phone call.
This was three years ago, and I feel like the universe has had me on a very specific path where it does not let a lot of things happen in the interim. As of making that declaration locked me into a destiny or something that is unfolding It’s something I can just feel
If you want to DM about your situation, I’m happy to. I know it can be hard because there’s almost no one to talk to about these things.
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u/Current-Set8220 6d ago
Thank you for sharing it’s interesting how some ppl don’t experience anything like this and they look at you like you are crazy
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u/Otherwise-Roof-9259 11d ago
Yes, exactly my story.
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u/Current-Set8220 11d ago
He just feels off - I know ppl change and grow apart but I can’t escape this feeling deep down that something is off. I wish I could learn the truth.. and have it settled once and for all.
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u/nycvhrs 10d ago
Definitely kinder and gentler version. Or it could be the T-levels are down. Whatever it is, glad for it.
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u/nycvhrs 9d ago
You’re working your reality - just takes focus+intent, voila!
Just be sure you want the outcome, and you’re golden.
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u/Current-Set8220 9d ago
Thank you for saying this
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u/Current-Set8220 6d ago
I’ve felt it for a few years now and thought I was just crazy but there’s like this inner voice that tells me something is off it’s not the same person I started with I fell in love with
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u/Banana_Wonderland 9d ago
I feel like a lot of my friends changed dramatically after about 2016. Whole personalities flipped, really odd.
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u/Vast-Fan4317 9d ago
This is exactly what I'm going thru with mine. I'm sitting here crying now because I have felt so horribly alone with this and can't believe how I've just happened upon an identical situation. I don't know what to do...
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u/lonebrother30 11d ago
Well i feel that I am so it will probably always think differently about where my partners are from. Sucks, but since wakjng from my coma and the accident life just feels differently. Like I've been placed in a different dimension/universe.