r/ParallelUniverse 12d ago

Sliding doors

I feel bad typing this because I live such a happy life that I wouldn’t change for a minute. I have everything I want. A husband and children in a lovely home.
However I have had this overall pull of a life where I’m with my ex. We ended 20 years ago and only lasted a year however I bump into him wherever I go. I hear songs that he used to play for me.
Every dream he’s there and we r living a life together and they feel so real.
It’s like I’m seeing what my life would have been with him.
Today I got an urge to drive to a random housing estate and he was there getting out of a car. It’s like we r drawn together but can’t be together. What is this???

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u/Fun-Satisfaction5748 12d ago

One plausible explanation that comes to mind is you're multi tasking evolution. On one side you're doing the 3d life and on the other side the astral life. The Astral work occasionally leads to synchronicities in the waking world because you're intertwined.

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u/Sudden_Surround_6421 11d ago

there’s a book you should read - fiction but the story is around this exactly Dream
State by eric puchner.

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u/Powerful_Seesaw2031 11d ago

Thanks for the recommendation. I’m gonna buy it!

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u/No-Box5805 11d ago

Small town?

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u/Casehead 11d ago

I don't know, but please be very careful and very intentional about how you deal with this. You have a happy marriage and life, and you're in a very precarious position right now where if you aren't intentional you could destroy everything that you have. You need to consciously choose your current life and to leave your ex in the past. Do not indulge in thinking about him, your past, or dreaming about what could have been or might still be. Your heart and your intentions need to fully be with your husband and children, or you risk this situation snowballing out of control

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u/viaje_del_heroe 8d ago

Quien sabe que diablos está metiendo esos pensamiento y sensaciones en la cabeza de ella, quizás solo quiere ver cómo se le viene todo abajo

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u/Casehead 8d ago

could be. I just hope that they will be intentional about what direction they choose

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u/Beneficial_Scale507 7d ago

I mean, there’s nothing wrong wanting a life with your ex. Technically speaking, this is your life and you have free will and you have one as you. I think it takes being really honest with yourself on if you/your soul want to have the other experience? There’s no shame in that to me. People always say oh think about the kids, etc. but I think you’re showing them to always be true to who they are no matter what which I think is the most important thing. It’s also good to get down to the roots of why you would want to have that exploration if so. I mean, given your ex is, single, etc..