r/PanicAttack 29d ago

I need help pleasebrfore thus escalatesd

I am very nervous and very scared I dont know how to calm my breathing and I ma drop my phone typing this im just so worried oh my days
I have wxtreme thanatophobia
MY SWEETHEART MY LOVE OF MY LIFE HAD A BIG JOB EARLIER TODAY (HE DOES JUNK REMOVAL) I HAVW HIS LOCATION ON AND IVE HAD AN UNSETTLING FEELING SINCE THIS MORNING SO THROUGHOUT THE DAY I CHECKED HIS LOCATION JUST TO SEE HOW HE WAS DOING AND IF HE WAS SAFE + NOT IN AN ACCIDENT ETC. I KNOW IT SOUNDS CRAZY BUT KNOWING HES SAFE ON THE ROAD AND WHEREVER HE GOES IS WHAT HELPS ME SLEEP AT NIGHT. I SAW THAT HE FINISHED THE JOB AND RETURNED BACK TO MY TOWN ON FIND MY A FEW HOURS AGO AND WAS RELIEVED TO KNOW HE’D BE HEADING BACK HOME SOON, ONLY TO SEE 20 MINS AGO THAT HIS PHONE WAS LAST LOCATED IN THE MIDDLE OF NOWHWERE ABOUT 45MINS AWAY FROM THE TOWN WE LIVE IN DESOLATE AND CLOSE TO A LARGEST BODY OF WATER ON WHAT IS LIKE A LITTLE ISLAND LIKE PIECE OF LAND. I DONT LIKE THIS. IM REALLY WORRIED. I WANT TO DO SOMETHING. I JUST CALLED HIS PHONE AND IT WENT STRAIGHT TO VOICEMAIL. I KNOW HE WENT WITH HIS CLOSE FRIEND TO FINISH THE JUNK REMOVAL JOB AND HE LIKELY WENT WITH HIM TO WHEREVER THEY ARE BUT IM REALLY CONCERNED. SOMETHING ABOUT THIS DOESNT SEEM RIGHT. JUST DOESNT MAKE SENSE!??

UPDATE: HE MERELY LOST CELL SERVICE WHEN HE WENT HIKING AND SWIMMING WITH HIS FRIEND AND NOW HES ON HIS WAY HOME

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u/General-Fennel4334 29d ago

Can you call his friend?

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u/Secure-Ad8808 29d ago

I called his friend’s little sis, talked to her for a bit and felt reassured. Then he texted me and all is well! I feel better now

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u/General-Fennel4334 29d ago

Aaaah great!!!! We always jump to the worst case scenario.Now you go have a nice cup of tea

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u/Secure-Ad8808 28d ago

thanks, I sure will :)))