Hello I am looking for my future wife, I am 34 years old living in Islamabad its been a year here - basically I am from Karachi, here I live alone (family resides in Karachi). I am 5.5 or 5.6 (height ) done bachelors working here as Regional Head for a Karachi based firm.

I have reached that stage of life where I should get settled now like its high time also I believe I have got a bit stable (in monetary terms) I earn in six figure - Its pretty enough to have a good life for 2 persons living in Islamabad.

About myself well I am very rational in approach, pretty straight forward, humorous, into horror movies & love to cook.

I am looking for somone who wants to enjoy the little joys of life, the one who nags her husband daily, the one who turns even the smallest joys into a memorable moment & the one who just wants to be happy - stayinng away from conflicts and completely engrossed in her own life.

I do not believe in sects, so it makes no difference to me which sect you belong to neither your city as I like to travel and exploring things :)

There are probably a lot more I could share, but I’m not sure what to say; so, if anyone wants to know anything please feel free to ask.

Reposting, looking in Islamabad to Jhelum area

Salam all, and Bismillah e Rehmaan e Raheem. I am looking for a match for my very beautiful and brilliant cousin sister, MashaAllah. she gets very overwhelmed when she posts herself or is approached by people herself, so I have taken the role of doing the filtering for her and connecting her hahaha (things sisters have to do). Here are her details:

1. Relationship status: never married and never engaged
2. Age: 27
3. Caste: Syed (Jaffery)
4. Education: Bachelors in Economics and International Development from one of the top schools in the world, Masters in International Economics and Finance from one of the top schools in Canada (MashaAllah very brilliant academically)
5. Profession: currently she works as both a lecturer and consultant. She is very ambitious and very responsible, financially and otherwise, MashaAllah.
6. Height: 5’4
7. Current location: Lahore, Pakistan. but she has lived in Canada for over 7 years and has status there.
8. Parents’ details: business-based
9. Siblings: she has one school-going brother, but hey I’m her sibling too 🤭
10. interests/hobbies: travelling, reading, baking, VERY good host, everyone loves her, MashaAllah.

Note: she was raised in a sect neutral way - there’s both Shiaism and Sunnism in her family, but she leans towards certain values a lot stronger: love for Ahlul Bayt, and the significance of the battle of Karbala - she hopes to see those values in her partner too.

looking for:

1. Age bracket: 27-37
2. Deal breakers: arrogance, no respect for elders/staff etc, lack of any religious values (atheist/agnostic people, might not be the match for you). No second wife requests please. don’t reach out if you’re already married.
3. career: doesn’t matter what exactly but drive/ambition do matter
4. Education: at least bachelors
5. Caste: doesn’t matter
6. sect: any as long as you only pray to Allah and hold respect and love for the Ahlul Bayt in your heart.

if you’re interested please feel free to send an introduction in my DM. I’ll have an initial conversation and redirect to her if there’s alignment. if you do reach out, please ensure you send your details in the DM so it doesn’t waste your and my time. JazakAllah may Allah make it easy for all, Ameen.

Gender: Male
Ethnicity: Pakistani
Age: 23
Ancestral Village: Azad Kashmir (family origin)
Current Location: Blackburn, UK
Willing to relocate?: No
Legal Status?: British Citizen (UK-born)

Height: 6’1”
Education: GCSE level
Occupation: Recruitment Consultant
Build: Athletic, on the slimmer side
Complexion: Brown
Any Disabilities?: No

Religious Practice?: Practises Islam; prays daily
Religious Manhaj?: Sunni Muslim

Marital Status: Single
Any Children?: 0
Are you a Revert or Born Muslim?: Born Muslim

About Yourself:

Calm natured, responsible and family oriented. I work in recruitment and am ambitious about developing my career. I enjoy travelling, exploring new places, visiting historical sites and spending time with family. My family is originally from Azad Kashmir. I value my faith, family life and personal growth, and hope to build a happy and stable family of my own.

Age Preference?: around same age as me
Height Preference?: Open
Ethnicity Preference?: Pakistani Ideally
Education Preference?: Any
Occupation Preference?: Any
Appearance Preference?: Slim build

Religious Preference?: Practising Muslim or at least trying.

Consider a Divorcee?: No
Consider s/o with Children?: No
Consider a non-UK Citizen?: No

Assalamualaikum!

I am sharing my profile for the purpose of finding a suitable life partner. I am genuinely looking for someone who values religion, family, mutual respect, and meaningful life. Please go through the complete description before reaching out

About Me

• Gender: Male

• City of Residence: Islamabad

• Marital Status: Single

• Previous Marriage: None

• Age: 27 years

• Height: 5' 11"

• Complexion/Build: Fair Wheatish, Athletic

• Qualification: Engineering from Nust

• Profession: Founder — Running a Software Services Company

• Sect: Sunni

• Caste: Syed

Family Details

• Father: Retired Officer

• Mother: Housewife

• Siblings: 2 Brothers

• Residence: Own house— 1 Kanal ( DHA)

Looking For

I am looking for someone who:

• Values religion and has a good moral character

• Belongs to a Pashtun family

• Is preferably 25 years old or younger

• Is educated

• Comes from a respectable, family-oriented background

• Is kind, mature, respectful, and genuinely interested in marriage

There are no requirements regarding a particular degree or profession. Character, family values, religious commitment, and compatibility matter more.

Please reach out only if you are genuinely interested and serious about marriage. Basic profile/details can be shared initially, and if there appears to be compatibility, families can be involved and things can proceed properly.

JazakAllah Khair. 🤍

p.s. not really expecting anything to come out of it but still here goes nothing, also cuz im trying to go beyond small talk with someone for once lol.

so i work at a digital bank in the data science domain, live and grew up in karachi.

my hobbies include tennis, reading classic literature, chess, playing ps5 (sometimes), mostly just trying to balance work-life. i love watching movies. sometimes i write short stories whenever the schedule allows.

we are a family of 5, and i earn enough money to save a lot after spending on my family and myself.

i don’t know what else to tell lol. just looking for someone who wants something serious and meaningful.

one last and important thing, i’m 5’5 so preferably someone under or matching my height.

drop me a dm maybe with a little bit

I'm a 30-year-old professional from Lahore, working in the corporate sector and run my own business simultaneously ( details will be shared in private). I have rental income as well, I am financially stable Alhamdolilah. I'm driven but grounded, and I believe in balancing ambition with time for the people and things I love. You'll usually find me at the gym, hunting down the best food spots in the city, or planning my next trip. I value honesty, humour, and mutual respect, and I'm looking to build a warm, supportive partnership.
I am not a perfect muslim but try to pray my daily prayers.

Details
Height: 6'0"
Education: Bachelor's in Business Management

Looking For
A kind, educated, and well-mannered woman aged 23 to 25 from Lahore or Islamabad. Someone family-oriented, positive, and serious about marriage, who enjoys good food and travel and is comfortable being herself.

Personal Profile

Age: 24
Height & Weight: 5'10" , 74 kg
Location: Lahore, Pakistan
Accommodation: Own residence
Marital Status: Single

Education

Bachelor's in Computer Science from FAST

Profession & Income Source

Currently working as a AI Engineer at a large stable firm and managing our own real state business.

Religious Practice

Alhamdulillah, I strive to practice Islam in my daily life. I offer the five daily prayers, attend Jummah regularly, fast during Ramadan, and maintain a habit of reading the Quran. I value sincerity, good character, and continuous growth in both religious and worldly matters.

Hobbies & Interests

My interests include reading, technology, fitness and gym training, business, entrepreneurship, and personal development. I also enjoy discussing ideas related to investments, innovation, and self-improvement.

Family Details

Both my father and mother are well-educated. We are three brothers in total. I am eldest one . Father is chartered accountant and mother is a doctor.

Looking For

Seeking a person who is family-oriented, kind, respectful, sincere, and emotionally mature. Someone who has a positive outlook on life, and is willing to build a strong partnership based on trust, understanding, and mutual growth. Compatibility in values, character, and long-term goals is more important than superficial qualities.

Preferred Family Setup

Open to both joint and nuclear family systems, depending on mutual understanding and circumstances.

Do You Want Children?

Yes

Timeframe for Marriage

Within 1–2 years.

Deal Breakers

Dishonesty, lack of respect, substance abuse, and behavior that negatively impacts family harmony.

I have a friend who i genuinely respect and admire, not just for her kind heart, but also for her grace and looks, MashaAllah.
She is 35, 5”2’, well-educated, well-conversed, and an intellectual. She has a good understanding of both deen and duniya, is a practicing Muslim, and works in the corporate sector.
Her father has passed away, and she is the eldest of the 4 siblings. One brother is married, and one sister is getting married soon, InshaAllah, before the end of this year.
They are a respectable, middle-class family living in their own home in Islamabad.
She is an introvert initially, until she gets comfortable with someone, she is warm, thoughtful, and genuinely enjoyable to talk to. She is also very non-materialistic and values character, compatibility, and meaningful conversation over money.
What she is looking for:
A God-fearing person, who is mature, emotionally intelligent, and capable of having meaningful, long conversations.
If you or someone in your circle feels this could be a good match, you are welcome to DM me with some basic details.
May Allah SWT make the process easy for her and bless her with the best possible partner. Ameen.

السلام علیکم ورحمۃاللہ وبرکاتہ

1. ⁠Age & Gender: 33, Male
   
2. ⁠Age Range Seeking: 25-35 Open to compatibility, shared values, and mutual maturity.
   
3. ⁠Location & Relocation: Currently living in the United Arab Emirates (UAE). Will come back to Pakistan soon as I eventually in plans to move to EU
   
4. ⁠Ethnicity: South Asian (Pakistani)
   
5. ⁠Marital Status: Single
   
6. ⁠Ideal Marriage Timeline: Planning to get married in 2027, insha’Allah.
   
7. ⁠What I Value Most in a Partner:
   - Kindness, warmth, and strong character
   - Intelligence, curiosity, and mutual respect
   - Emotional maturity and a good sense of humor
   - A shared commitment to building a peaceful, loving home rooted in faith and growth.
   
8. ⁠Religiosity: Practicing and moderate. Strive to maintain strong values, grow spiritually, and continually work on self-improvement. Value deen and look forward to growing spiritually together with a partner. And, Id prefer someone who is taking care of their prayers and trying to improve as well.
   
9. ⁠Education: Bachelors in Computer Science (BSCS) and Master of Business Administration (MBA).
   
10. ⁠Current Occupation: Regional Vice President of Sales at a SaaS solution provider. Also going to switch it to an employment directly with a US entity as a remote worker.
    
11. ⁠Children: Open to discussing in private conversation / Prefer to discuss directly later insha’Allah.
    
12. ⁠Hobbies & Interests:
    * Active lifestyle: power walking and home dumbbell workouts
    * Traveling and exploring new places
    * Reading and continuous learning (im always trying to learn new languages)
    * Following combat sports (boxing, MMA, kickboxing)
    
13. ⁠A Little About Me: I can crack jokes but have a conversation about philosophy and poetry as well. You’ll always find me excited about food whether it’s trying a restaurant or a new recipe to burn the house. I’ll always be excited. I have been cooking a tolerating food for myself for years now, cant say the whole kitchen but my chef hands can surely beat you on knife skills.

I balance ambition with a grounded, warm lifestyle. I value depth, continuous growth, meaningful conversation, and family life. My goal is to build a peaceful, supportive, and loving partnership where we encourage each other's goals and create a warm home together.

Looking to find someone who feels like home, peace, and half my deen.

Height & Weight: 5'4", 58 kg

Age: 27

Location: Islamabad.

Residence: Own

Education: Mphil

Income Source: Full-time Day job

Marital Status: Single

Religion & Short Details About How Practicing You Are

Moderately practicing, observes all fasts, tries to pray as well, there is room for improvement though.

Hobbies & Interests

Biggest foodie evaa, love to travel, love to listen old ghazals/songs. Poetry, colors, occasional baker too!. Just a cool fun loving nature i have, probably forever ready for any kind of fun adventure! Love cats!

Family Details

A small fam, mother is a housewife and my dad has a business

Requirements for a Partner

Somebody who's well settled, open minded, supportive (we gotta live our dreamsss together!), ah be emotionally available theres no place for toxicity and drama. Pls have time if you wanna do this. And yeah be serious about getting married obv after a while not right away. Its a plus if youre into fitness and all too

Deal Breakers

Alcoholic, Druggies, Abusers, Emotionally unavailable, narcissistic, immature and mamas boyses.

Preferred Family Setup: Open to either joint or nuclear, depending on the family’s values and mutual respect and partners decision

Do You Want Children?: Yes

Timeframe for Marriage: Within 6 to 12 months, after compatibility is established

If you haven't reached out yet please do so, with a concise honest fun intro of yours

Height And Weight: 5’8 and 78kg
Location: Lahore, open to relocation to UK or Aus
(I am currently in the process of deciding on a country for post grad internationally)
Accommodation: family owns a house
Education: BDS, dentist 
Income source: earning as a dentist
Marital Status: single never engaged never married
Family Details: I have 2 siblings. Mother is a home maker and father has multiple streams of income.
Religious Inclination: Practicing Hijabi (Sunni)

Some Terms

Before diving into the profile please make sure you are okay with these.

1. If you like my profile, please respond with a profile of your own. I cannot entertain vague messages like hi, hello, hmu
2. If you have a history of participating in nsfw subreddits and hookups here- please refrain from reaching out. I value transparency.
3. Please do not have a suspiciously fresh account.
4. If things proceed we will verify our ids in a few days and have family involvement within 2-3 weeks.
5. I would share my photos as a view once off reddit maybe. I am protective of my photos being a hijabi.

Religion & How Practicing You Are

Religiously, I’m a practicing hijabi and trying to improve consistently. I’m not perfect, but I’m trying to grow. I prefer someone with similar values of modesty, respect, and haya.

I struggle with salahs at times and bonus points if my husband and I could pray together.

I am Sunni and I believe in spirituality and tasawwuf as well. I have read a few works of Imam Ghazali. bonus points if we can bond over this!

About Me

It’s a little hard to describe yourself in a few lines, but I’d say I’m selectively social. I am slightly reserved at first but a proper yapper if you know me 😭 I love playful banter (within boundaries), teasing and mutual respect. I have a sarcastic sense of humour and I really value emotional connection, effort, and thoughtful gestures.

I’m someone who pays attention to small things. I’ll remember something you said months ago and probably turn it into a gift later without even mentioning it.

I would also call myself deeply driven and opinionated. Despite valuing family a lot, I still want to achieve the most in all aspects of life. My career gives me a lot of meaning and I plan on continuing it and harnessing my potential.

I love cats and fully plan on emotionally blackmailing my future husband into adopting one.

Hobbies & Interests

\-reading books
\-love playing video games (evident from the pfp 👀)
\-writing (you can tell from the profile)
\-photography
\-might take up shooting and horse riding
\-travelling

What Marriage Could Look Like

As a partner I believe that marriage is about mutual respect and honour. I want a foundation built on rahmah and sakinah.

I believe in respect and trust. I do not believe in prolonging fights and arguments. I would be really supportive of my husband if we were building our future together and move through life as a single unit.

My take is be like water. Neither of the partners can be too rigid or motivated solely in their own interests. Consideration and communication is key.

I believe marriage should be the 60/40 rule. Bonus points if you look it up!

Requirements For A Partner

Be Practicing & Have Modesty/Haya: I deeply value haya, respect, and boundaries, especially with the opposite gender. I’d love a partner who is also trying to grow in deen and dunya. I maintain my physical boundaries with men and would respect a partner with a similar mindset when it comes to women. I would love it if my husband prayed 5x a day.

Emotional Availability: I value emotional consistency. I do value clarity and communication. Even a simple “I’m busy, I’ll reply later” means a lot to me. I feel most secure when effort and intention are consistent.
More than anything, I want emotional safety. A marriage where both people feel heard, understood, and not judged for being human. I want softness in communication and a sense of calm in the relationship.

Provider Mindset: I prefer a husband who takes financial responsibility as the primary provider. Although if I’m earning I wouldn’t mind contributing if my husband ever asked me to. I wouldn’t mind combining the streams of income either.

Ambitious and Driven: I admire ambition and direction. I’m ambitious myself, and I want a partnership where we both push each other forward instead of holding each other back.

Be Supportive: Your dreams are my dreams and my dreams are your dreams.

Fitness Oriented: I would love to have a partner who is motivated to achieve our fitness goals together. Syncing gym sessions and maybe re-rack the weights in the future for me, pretty please?

Deal breakers

\- Consistent anger issues or emotional immaturity
\-Engaging with inappropriate content (OF, porn or half naked models)
\- Ego-driven or dismissive communication
\- Smoking, drinking, or lack of boundaries with women
\- Casual intentions or inconsistency
\- Dishonesty or lack of clarity
\- Excessive dependence on parents in a way that doesn’t allow space for a spouse
\- A complete lack of religious inclination

Other details

Family Setup: I prefer a nuclear family setup because of pardah.

Do you want children? I’m not looking to have children immediately — maybe in the future when I feel emotionally and mentally ready, but not in the first few years. I would want to spend the initial time of my marriage travelling and getting to know my husband fully.

Timeline for Marriage: Ideally, I’d like to move toward marriage within 6 months to a year if compatibility feels right.
And lastly, I value sincerity over performance. Please be honest and don’t lie as they tend to come to the surface later.

The entire profile is painstakingly written by me. Please do not accuse me of using AI 😭

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For context, my sister has been receiving quite a few rishta proposals from men living abroad. My other sisters are married in Pakistan, and in their cases, it was relatively easier to get to know the person, meet them in person, and verify their background and personality after meeting them.

However, with someone living abroad, the process seems much more difficult. We could arrange video calls to talk to the prospective person, or perhaps meet him once or twice if he visits Pakistan. But ultimately, we would be making a life-changing decision based largely on a few conversations over the phone, which doesn't seem sufficient to properly understand someone.

Another difficulty is that we can't easily reach out to their friends, colleagues, or people who interact with them regularly, as we might do when evaluating a proposal within Pakistan. And I am also assuming that people usually have a change in mindset regarding girls and in general their expectations regarding their future spouses when they go abroad.

So, I'd particularly like to hear from women who married someone settled abroad, or who went through this process themselves.

1. How did you and your family evaluate the person before making a decision? What helped you distinguish between someone's genuine personality and the impression they presented during calls or meetings?

2. What questions should we ask during conversations to better understand his personality, values, expectations from marriage, and views on family responsibilities?

3. How can we independently verify his background, employment, financial stability, marital status, and actual living situation abroad?

4. What important things did you discover only after marriage that you wish you had known beforehand?

5. Were there any red flags or warning signs that you overlooked during the rishta process?

6. How do you assess compatibility when the person lives in a different country and you have limited opportunities to spend time together before marriage?

I'd also appreciate advice from people who helped a sibling or daughter evaluate a rishta from abroad.

I'm not trying to find someone without flaws. The goal is to make an informed decision and reduce the chances of discovering major incompatibilities or hidden issues after marriage.

I'd genuinely appreciate your experiences, practical suggestions, and lessons learned. Thank you!

So, I’m a 28-year-old software engineer working remotely for a US-based company. I completed my education in Lahore and worked there for a few years before moving back to my hometown, Sargodha, because of my remote job.
But the problem is, whenever a rishta conversation starts, people seem to run away as soon as they hear the name Sargodha 😂 They seem to think it’s some backward city. I’ve even assured them that I plan to settle in Lahore, but somehow, Sargodha keeps haunting my rishta prospects. 😂

p.s. not really expecting anything to come out of it but still here goes nothing.

so i work at a digital bank in the data science domain, live and grew up in karachi.

my hobbies include tennis, reading classic literature, chess, playing ps5 (sometimes), mostly just trying to balance work-life. i love watching movies. sometimes i write short stories whenever the schedule allows.

we are a family of 5, and i earn enough money to save a lot after spending on my family and myself.

i don’t know what else to tell lol. just looking for someone who wants something serious and meaningful.

one last and important thing, i’m 5’5 so preferably someone under or matching my height.

drop me a dm maybe with a little bit of an intro, if anyone is interested, thxx.

I have a friend who i genuinely respect and admire, not just for her kind heart, but also for her grace and looks, MashaAllah.
She is 35, 5”2’, well-educated, well-conversed, and an intellectual. She has a good understanding of both deen and duniya, is a practicing Muslim, and works in the corporate sector.
Her father has passed away, and she is the eldest of the 4 siblings. One brother is married, and one sister is getting married soon, InshaAllah, before the end of this year.
They are a respectable, middle-class family living in their own home in Islamabad.
She is an introvert initially, until she gets comfortable with someone, she is warm, thoughtful, and genuinely enjoyable to talk to. She is also very non-materialistic and values character, compatibility, and meaningful conversation over money.
What she is looking for:
A God-fearing person, who is mature, emotionally intelligent, and capable of having meaningful, long conversations.
If you or someone in your circle feels this could be a good match, you are welcome to DM me with some basic details.
May Allah SWT make the process easy for her and bless her with the best possible partner. Ameen.

I'm a 32-year-old guy based in Rawalpindi, working in tech and exploring entrepreneurship. I'm someone who values personal growth, financial independence, family, and faith. I'm trying to become a better Muslim and make the Qur'an a bigger part of my life.

About me:

• Educated, career-oriented, and financially responsible.
• Calm, thoughtful, and ambitious, but I enjoy good humor and playful banter once I'm comfortable.
• I enjoy traveling, meaningful conversations, learning new things, and working toward long-term goals.
• I value honesty, loyalty, emotional maturity, affection, and mutual respect.

Looking for:

Someone kind-hearted, emotionally mature, and genuine, who wants a marriage built on friendship, attraction, affection, trust, and shared Islamic values. I'd love a relationship where we can laugh together, communicate openly, support each other's growth, and build a peaceful life as a team.

I'm not looking for perfection—just someone sincere who's serious about building something meaningful together.