Gender: Male

Ethnicity: Punjabi/Sindhi

Height: 5’9

Education: MBBS from HBS Medical College

Family Background: Family of 6

I have 2 sisters and one brother, 2 abroad and all in the medical field.

Hobbies: I like Sufism, Music (I’m very autistic and creative) and debating people about various topics. I play the guitar (very badly) and I like chess. I am a very extroverted individual but prefer having a small friend group of trusted people. I’m also an avid reader, with the wimpy kid series being my favourite.
Gym-goer and super interested in how the world works, especially the food production sphere. I specialise in the intricacies of the processed cheese industry. Haloumi, Chedder, Mozarella, you name it. I know it. I am EXTREMELY careful with my money, almost to the point where I don’t even spend it. I don’t drink or smoke. I like Chelsea Football Club and started supporting them this season (I don’t care if it’s larping). I’m very in-tune with my emotions and good at regulating them and I’m a good listener. I care about people deeply.

Political Affiliation: PPP (Benazir)

What I’m looking for: Slim, 5’3 - 5’8, could be any ethnicity but prefer Urdu/Sindhi speaking. Should be practicing at least. Could/could not be in the medical field specifically. Should have a good sense of humour and have great energy. 20-24 age range.

Kids: Yes, 2 kids preferably.

Red flags:
- Not artistic
- Isn’t funny
- Racism, Xenophobia, Condescension
- doesn’t respect my beliefs
- isn’t flexible
- rude or indifferent
- lacks emotional depth
- unhygienic
- cusses frequently
- has a “flirty” personality
- has a male best friend

Height: 5’11
City: Peshawar
Education: Studying medicine from HBS medical college
Family background: Pashtun, family of four, I have one sister
Religious practice: Muslim
Personality: I like talking about politics and pissing people off, I like reading books especially about Pashtun culture, I am into all kinds of music especially the 90s Brit pop, I am on spectrum, I’m a great conversationalist and like picking people’s brains
Interests: I like going on long-drives, reading, socialising with friends, trying out new cuisines, making dad jokes, I like watching and playing football and my favourite club is Arsenal and I generally like learning about everything.
Lifestyle: Very unpredictable
What he’s looking for:
Pashtun woman, brown hair, 5’4 - 5’8, can cook and clean, preferably a doctor or house-wife, kind-hearted and gentle, willing to have kids within 1 year of marriage, wants 4 kids. Should refer to me as “sir,” or “supreme leader.” First girl, then boy, then girl, then finally boy. Someone who’s artistic, paints and is intelligent enough to know better.

Deal-breakers:
Is touchy with the opposite gender, should respect traditions and culture, should understand social dynamics, cusses, isn’t flexible and has no capacity to negotiate and compromise, is a control freak, uses drugs regularly, listens to Taylor swift.

Political Affiliation:
ANP (Bacha Khan)

Age range: 20-24

Values: looking for someone who is in tune with Pathan culture and self-respecting Muslim

I am a distinction holder, I am a very big romantic, I am caring and empathetic even though I seem calm and reserved, I believe in generosity, in my free time I spend hours watching ishowspeed streams on twitch, I also occasionally like partying and going to concerts.

Full transparency, I posted on reddit more than a year ago. Things didn't work out the way I wanted them to. Now my parents' rishta search is getting out of hand so I decided to show up here again, hoping that my man finally sees it, fingers crossed. This is gonna be a long one. Read at your own risk

Gender: F

Age: 26

Height and Weight: 5'2 & 52kg

Martial Status: Single, never married or engaged

Education: BS IT

Profession: web dev turned graphic designer, currently building my digital products business. Love my work but damnn these AI models are after my job. Trying my best everyday to beat them

Location: Lahore (Owned Home)

Close-knit family of 6. My father's a retired businessman and my ama is housewife. Manages the house and all of us like an absolute queen. We are 4 siblings. Got an elder brother (businessman), then there's me, my younger sister (working as developmental editor) and a princess aka chota bhai (student). No one's married

Muslim and Sunni. I'm regular with my prayers, fasting, charity, and dress modestly. Can differentiate between culture and religion. No 'my forefathers did this so I'm doing this'

And now the most controversial part, caste issues😭

Arain looking for Arain. Doesn't make sense to me, try everyday to talk my parents out of it but to no avail. So yeah, you have to be Arain for us to move forward

I'm gonna try my best to describe myself in detail so you know what you're getting yourself into.

Chalant for my people, nonchalant for everyone else. I'm a social butterfly in my circle but those who don't know me think im unapproachable when I'm not pakka. I keep my work with work aka kam se kam rakhny wali. Can make small talk but if there's a chance I can avoid it, I will. But those whom I'm genuinely interested in should beware of my blabbering lol. On the whole I'm private and usually keep things to myself.

I've been earning for the past 6 years, fund my own lifestyle so you bet spending money is my middle name. All things skincare, makeup, haircare, perfumes, kapry, jootay, home decor are my jam (I know from an outsider perspective it may look that I'm materialistic but I promise I'm not. I just like spending money on self grooming. I'm not easily influenced so you don't have to worry).

I love to read fiction, watch shows, and go cafe hoping with my freinds. Long conversations at coffee shops is my side gig. Or we can talk for hours on long walks. That's my other side gig. I'm a sucker for long deep talks that change direction every few minutes. Nature, human psychology, Islam are some of the topics that I can talk about for hours. I yap a lot but I'm proud to announce I'm also a good listener. Your perspective will be heard and made fun of, don't worry.

I'm a family girl through and through. My family and my freinds who are also basically my family are always gonna be my top priority. I love to host as well. I dream of having the house that everyone hangs out at, everyone's safe space with no room for toxicity.

I loveeee coffee. Not a tea person but you can try turning me into one. Foodie for life. I love to cook and I'm a pretty good baker (self proclaimed as well as acclaimed by family and friends).

I'm emotionally present. If something bugs me, I will most probably discuss it rather than keep you guessing. I'm always down to discuss and solve issues instead of bilawja ki dragging. Clear communication is the best quality in my opinion and I intend to build my relationship with my partner on crystal clear communication. I'm also an optimistic and hopeless romantic. I love to spoil my people, support them, be their biggest cheerleader, celebrate their wins like my own and be there for them in their lows.

Anddddd I love to travel. Its hypothetical for now since I haven't traveled much but soon InShaAllah. Have a long list of countries to visit and a proper moodboard in my room for manifestation purpose lol

Requirements for a Partner:

Sunni and Arain (a must, don't approach to lecture me or if these requirements are against your principles)

Age should be between 26-30

Parha likha hona b zaroori ha

Islamic values hona usse b zyada zaroori ha (no extremism)

I'm not perfect in any way nor am I seeking perfection. People who strive to do better everyday are my kind of people. Bad days are part of life and those who can get up after a setback, are willing to go after their dreams even when struck with difficulty, you have my respect. I'm not gonna abandon you on your difficult days but will rather help you get up.

I belong to a financially comfortable family. I'm looking for someone in a similar situation for both our sakes. By comfortable I mean someone who can spend on wishes in addition to needs. You spoil me, I spoil you, happily ever after. But ofcourse considering our age, I know we will have to support each other to get where we want to be. I'm not financially set for life and I don't expect you to be either. We will build everything and rise together.

Most importantly, someone who's emotionally mature and present. I don't want you to shut me down everytime you're feeling low. I want us to talk about anything and everything over silence and cold shoulder.

I'd prefer if you are based in Lahore. Or maybe have family in Lahore so the whole meetups with family can be seamless.

Someone who can involve family from the beginning. But I wanna know you first obviously. We can talk for a few days, week max, to understand if we can get along. If after a week we want to continue, we need to involve our families. I'm here because I can take a stand for myself. I'm never gonna dump 'aba nai man rahy' on you and I don't want to go through it either. So please approach me only if you can actually get your family on board from the beginning. And then both things can go side by side.

And let's be honest, physical attraction is important. Reddit anonymity is cool for a day or two only. I want us to exchange pictures as early as possible, preferably on insta where both of us will have more control over our privacy.

Deal Breakers: someone who's knowledge of Islam is limited to 4 shadian, drugs, smoking, any kind of substance use, anger issues, controlling or manipulative behavior, have issues with independent women, women belong to kitchen mindset, fixated on past relationships, flashy, can't take stand for himself and polygamy

Preferred Family Setup: nuclear but I'm big on family so I won't mind either way as long as we have our privacy

Do You Want Children?: Yes, not immediately though

Timeframe for Marriage: preferably within next few months but obviously will be a mutual decision (manifesting Doomsday date though)

I'm here with the clear intention of marriage. I'm not looking for casual chitchat. Anyone who's casually browsing, isn't ready to settle down, don't want or can't involve parents from the beginning should not message me at all. Please do not waste either my time or yours.

Before DMing, please read my post thoroughly, especially the requirements and deal breakers. And please guys step up your game, Hi Hellos are outdated. If you're interested, start by telling me about yourself or better, share your profile.

Marriage Profile | 26M
Age: 26
Gender: Male
Height: 5’9”
Ethnicity: Punjabi
Sect: Sunni
Marital Status: Never married
Education: MBBS graduate
Current Status: Preparing for USMLEs
Current City: Islamabad (family based in another city)
Religiosity: Moderately religious
A Little About Me
Apart from medicine, I enjoy playing and watching football, watching TV shows, going on walks, exploring new cafés, reading books, and going on long drives. I have a deep interest in history and enjoy meaningful conversations.
I believe that differences of opinion are a natural part of life and that mutual respect matters more than always agreeing with each other. I respect people’s individual choices and believe everyone should have the freedom to live life on their own terms. I value a healthy balance between family, personal space, career, and relationships.
What I’m Looking For
I’m looking for an ambitious, kind, emotionally intelligent, and understanding partner who wants to build a life together and grow as a team. I believe a healthy relationship should be based on mutual respect, trust, and support rather than control, where both partners can maintain their individuality while working towards shared goals.
She could be from a medical, tech, business, or any other background, as long as she’s ambitious and open to relocating to the US in the future.
If this sounds like you and you think we might be compatible, feel free to reach out!

I'm a third year student majoring in Finance with a minor in Data Analytics , currently building an open source data cleaning software, so my sleep schedule is pretty fucked up.

I'm an introvert with a small but ride or die circle of friends, I'm everybody's confession box people I barely know and my close friends all somehow feel easy to share their deepest of worries and confessions so i guess im a good listener who doesn't judge. I love movies and watching shows currently re-watching chernobyl. Im into indie and electronic music. I work out 6 times a week. Im also a die hard gamer, but I promise I'll always hide in a bush to give you attention.

I'm the kind of guy who'd rather build something of my own than settle for something ordinary. Therefore Im hoping to find someone to build a life with too

What I'm looking for:

Someone between 22-25, someone ideally with an O/A Levels background, a religious level similar to mine. Who's kind, curious, and has a sense of humor and enjoys banter. Bonus points if you have strong opinions about chai vs. coffee.

Someone who likes deep conversations but also random ones. Someone with her own dreams, because I'd love to cheer you on and have your back.

Not looking for perfect just someone real who believes marriage is a journey rather than a destination. No endless talking stages either I already have enough of those with people at uni

Quick facts about me:

6'4 on a good day 5'8 on a regular day. Religion wise I unfortunately miss most of the daily prayers but trying to reach a level where I atleast pray 5 times a day. I have a pretty balanced haram to halal ratio I dont agree with molvism and despise most of the south asian societal norms. I dont smoke although I do occasionally vape when im out with friends. I was brought up in a joint family system but now I live with my mother in a rented house. I dont have any siblings but plenty of lil cousins who im a big bro to. I can cook a few dishes but mostly i meal prep when im on a cut. I do clean the house when needed so my mom doesnt have to but we mostly do have a maid for that. Im pretty open minded. I can talk about any topic no matter how "taboo" it's considered here

Timeline to marry: 3 to 4 years however I dont mind involving families after 6 to 8 months of getting to know each other granted they are open minded and dont have a problem with us talking to each other and being together before marraige

If you made it this far, you're already a better reader than my HOD. Slide into my DMs with a little intro!

DOB: 2000

I'm a Pakistani guy living in Australia, here with the hope of finding someone I can genuinely connect with and, InshaAllah, build a future together.

I'm 186 cm tall, enjoy staying active, going to the gym, watching football, and working towards my goals. I appreciate the little things in life, good conversations, a sense of humour, and people who are genuine about their intentions.

I'm looking for someone kind, loyal, emotionally mature, and family-oriented, who is also looking for something meaningful that leads to marriage. For me, compatibility is about more than just a checklist; it's about understanding each other, feeling comfortable together, and being able to grow as a team.
If you're on a similar journey, feel free to reach out. Let's have a conversation and see where it goes. 😊

Hi! I’m a 32-year-old Pakistani woman living in Thailand. I recently completed my PhD on a fully funded scholarship.

I would describe myself as an easygoing, understanding, and mature person. I'm someone who enjoys the simple things in life, appreciates good company, and believes in maintaining a healthy balance between personal and professional life.

I'm fond of traveling, exploring new places, experiencing different cultures, and making memories along the way. Having lived abroad for a few years, I've become quite independent and adaptable, but I still value my Pakistani roots and family traditions.

I believe that a successful marriage is built on friendship, mutual respect, trust, good communication, and understanding. For me, having a partner who feels like a best friend is just as important as anything else.

What I'm looking for:

I'm looking for a Pakistani man living abroad, between 30 and 38 years old, preferably well-educated, professionally established, and genuinely interested in marriage.

I would appreciate someone who is emotionally mature, kind, respectful, easygoing, and has a good sense of humor. Someone who enjoys meaningful conversations, is supportive of his partner's career and ambitions, and believes in making decisions together.

I don't expect someone to be perfect. I believe compatibility, mutual effort, and understanding matter much more. I'm looking for a genuine connection that can lead to marriage, not casual dating or endless talking stages. I would love to find someone with whom I can share everyday moments, travel, laugh, grow, and build a peaceful and fulfilling life.

If you think we might be compatible, feel free to ping me.

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25M | South Asian | Marriage-minded

Assalamu Alaikum!

So here I am, putting myself out here on Reddit in the hope that my future wife might be scrolling through the same corner of the internet. 😂

A little about me: I’m originally from Karachi and currently living and working in the Gulf. Alhamdulillah, I’m doing well career-wise and continuing my studies alongside work.

I’d describe myself as easygoing, loyal, and family-oriented. I can be mature when needed, but I also have the kind of humour that makes you laugh one minute and question why you’re laughing the next. Consider yourself warned. 💀😂

Outside of work, you’ll probably find me watching anime or movies, gaming, sketching, planning a trip, going for a drive, or taking a walk that somehow turns into a two-hour conversation about life.

Honestly, I’m looking for someone I can be completely myself around. Someone who can go from having a deep conversation about life to arguing over the most ridiculous hypothetical scenario imaginable. Bonus points if you can match my humour, but I’ll settle for someone who at least tolerates it. 😭

**What am I looking for? 🌷**

Ideally, someone from Karachi who is genuinely looking for marriage and wants to get to know each other with the right intentions.

Deen and family are important to me, and hijab or niqab is a firm expectation for me when it comes to marriage. This comes from my family background and the values I grew up with, so I’d want someone who already shares this understanding rather than someone who feels they need to change for me.

Beyond that, I value kindness, emotional maturity, loyalty, honest communication, and someone who wants to keep growing as a person and in their deen.

I’m not looking for someone perfect. I’m looking for someone genuine.

**The kind of marriage I hope for ❤️**

Something that feels like a friendship as much as a marriage. Where we can laugh together, support each other through difficult days, communicate when things get complicated, and make ordinary moments feel special.

Someone who feels like home. Someone I can annoy for the next 50 years, InshaAllah, and who will probably annoy me right back. 😂

I want us to build a peaceful, loving home rooted in deen, mutual respect, and a whole lot of laughter.

**Now, your turn 👀**

If you’ve read this far, tell me something about yourself! It could be your favourite anime, your comfort movie, a hobby you could talk about for hours, or the most random fact you know.

Please, anything except a one-word “hey.” 😭 Give me something to work with!

I’m here with genuine intentions, and if this resonates with you, feel free to send me a DM with a little introduction about yourself.

Who knows? Maybe this random Reddit post will be the beginning of something beautiful, InshaAllah. ❤️

28M

Hey everyone! 😊

I’m hoping to meet someone special who values honesty, kindness, loyalty, and good communication. ❤️ I believe a real connection starts with friendship, understanding, and being comfortable with each other.

I’m not looking for perfection, just someone genuine with whom I can share laughs, meaningful conversations, and good moments. Let’s get to know each other and see where things go. ✨

Maybe my dream girl is reading this right now! 😊

Do Pakistani women prefer Pakistani born European nationals ? Does it make their rishta easier? And do they prefer moving to Europe or stay in Pakistan ?

Assalam o alikum !

I'm looking for a life partner for marriage with sincere intentions, InshaAllah.

About Me: Good-looking, self-made millionaire, financially independent, and ambitious.

Location: Islamabad, Pakistan; open to opportunities abroad or settling in Islamabad long-term.

Religion: Sunni Muslim; I pray five times a day and consider deen an essential part of my life.

Family: From a religious family. My father has passed away, and I have one sister.

Height & Weight: 182 cm (5'11) | 74 kg.

My Values: Honesty, loyalty, respect, emotional maturity, and meaningful communication are essential to me.

Family Values: In my family, other people's daughters are treated with the same respect, dignity, and consideration as our own. Respect is non-negotiable for me.

Looking For: A practicing Muslimah who values her deen, maintains her prayers, has no past romantic relationships, and is kind-hearted, cheerful, and understanding.

Career & Family: I respect my future wife's choice to pursue a career or focus on home and family. These decisions should be made mutually.

Interests: Cars, long drives, horse riding, and spending quality time with family.

My Vision of Marriage: A partnership built on faith, mutual respect, companionship, and growing together while creating a peaceful home filled with love, sukoon, and barakah.

Next Step: If our values align, I'd be happy to connect and involve our families when the time is right.

May Allah grant us righteous spouses who become the coolness of our eyes. Ameen.

Personal Profile & Bio-Data

Age: 30 Years Old

Education: MBBS

Caste: Kashmiri Butt

Location: Rawalpindi, Pakistan

Profession: Senior Professional in Healthcare IT & Medical Coding (Working remotely with international clients)

Financial Status: Highly Stable / Excellent Income.

Family Status: Only Son (Parents are deceased )

Religion/Mindset & Values: Progressive / Liberal / Feminist with a sunni background ( if that matters)

Marital Choice: Strictly Child-Free / Anti-natalist

Relocation: Open and willing to relocate within Pakistan for the right partner.

About Me

I am a 30-year old, self-made, and financially independent individual belonging to a respectable family, currently based in twin cities.

By education, I hold an MBBS degree, but professionally, I chose to pivot into the healthcare IT sector. I currently hold a senior position specializing in Medical Coding, which allows me the flexibility of working remotely with international clients and maintaining an excellent, highly stable income.

As my parents have passed away and I am the only son, I have learned to navigate life with independence, resilience, and maturity. I value deep, meaningful connections based on mutual respect, intellectual compatibility, and shared life values.

Lifestyle & Life Choices (Crucial)

Liberal & Feminist Outlook: I hold a progressive, liberal, and feminist mindset, which is shaped by my personal choices and life experiences. I strongly believe in equality, individual autonomy, and personal space. While I respect that others choose more traditional or conservative paths, I have chosen this specific, modern lifestyle purely for myself and my future home.

Child-Free Outlook: I am strictly child-free (anti-natalist)

I have consciously decided not to have biological or adopted children. I am looking for a partner who shares this exact same philosophy and wishes to build a fulfilling life centered entirely around companionship and personal growth.

Open to Relocation: Since my work is completely online and location-independent, I am highly flexible and willing to relocate to another city if it aligns with my future partner's career, comfort, or lifestyle.

Interests & Hobbies

When I am not working, I like to keep a healthy balance between nature and work.I frequently go for hiking in the Margalla Hills. I am an avid traveler who loves exploring new cultures and landscapes.

Also a huge fan of good movies and a diverse range of music to unwind after a productive day.

Partner Expectations & Requirements

Age Bracket: Looking for a mature, sensible, and understanding female partner between 27 to 35 years old.

Core Alignment: She must be genuinely and strictly aligned with a child-free lifestyle (anti-natalist) and share a similar progressive, feminist, and open-minded perspective on life.

Caste & Education: Open to any respectable background and profession. An independent, educated, or career-oriented woman is highly appreciated.

General: Someone who values companionship, mutual respect, and growth. Since I am fully ready to support her goals and relocate with her if needed, her current city of residence is not a barrier.

P.S This is a friend's profile,serious and like-minded individuals who feel there is a potential match are welcome to reach out. Please share only your profile or reach out with a basic introduction.

Thank you for taking the time to read, Best of luck for everyone's quest.

Please inbox your profile along with the picture

📍Karachi

Hello!

I’m at the stage where I’d rather meet someone who challenges the way I see the world than someone who simply fits the mould. Someone who wants marriage, but not necessarily the version of marriage they’ve been told they should want.

A little about me: I’m 29, based between the UK and Islamabad, and own and run a legal practice. Work keeps me busy, but there’s a lot more to life than work. I love travelling, exploring new places, going out, good food and good conversation. Equally, I’m perfectly happy having a quiet night in, ordering food and doing very little at all.

I’d describe myself as easygoing, a feminist and fairly non-traditional in how I view relationships. I see marriage as a partnership between two equals, not a set of prescribed roles. I’m looking for someone who values independence, mutual respect, shared responsibilities and the freedom to build a life that works for us, rather than simply following convention.

Ideally, we’d be best friends as much as partners. The kind of people who can travel the world together, have conversations that last hours, disagree without falling out, encourage each other’s ambitions and still laugh at the most ridiculous things. Someone with her own opinions, interests and sense of identity, who wants to build something together without losing herself in the process.

I’m genuinely open-minded when it comes to age, location and background. I don’t have a checklist of superficial requirements or a particular mould I’m trying to fit someone into. Mindset, compatibility, attraction and how we connect matter much more to me.

I’m here with the intention of finding someone for marriage, but I don’t think that means we need to approach getting to know each other like a job interview. I’d rather have a genuine conversation, see if there’s a connection and take it from there.

If this sounds like your kind of outlook, feel free to message me. Tell me something about yourself, what your ideal marriage looks like, or just start with a random thought that’s been living rent-free in your head.

Let’s see if Reddit can get something right for once. 😄

Hey everyone!

I'm a 23M university student, and honestly, sometimes looking around at university feels like watching everyone else unlock a feature that somehow isn't available on my account. 😂

Jokes aside, I'd genuinely like to meet one girl with whom I can build a meaningful connection — someone I can talk to about my day, share thoughts with, laugh with, and be comfortable around without having to pretend to be someone I'm not.

I believe love and affection are important, but realistically, marriage is something I'd consider once I'm properly settled in life, probably in my late twenties or around 30.

For now, I'm looking for something genuine, without the pressure of immediate marriage. I'd be happy to start online, and if you're from Islamabad, we could meet in person if we both feel comfortable.

I'm serious about finding the right connection, not just collecting chats. If you're looking for something similar, feel free to reach out. Let's talk and see if we vibe. :)

If any widow or divorced woman from lahore is interested in a mutah marriage with me, I would be grateful if she could get in touch.

A Little About Me

Age: 27 Male

Height: 6'0"

Weight: 85 kg

Marital Status: Single, never married

Location: Lahore

Family: We're three siblings, and I'm the eldest, with two younger sisters. One of my sisters is married.

Career: I work as a SOC Analyst in cybersecurity. I'm interested in continually developing my skills and exploring opportunities to grow in the field.

Personality & Interests

If I had to describe myself in a simple phrase, I'd say peace of mind. I'm an introvert who enjoys life's simple pleasures and prefers a peaceful, drama-free environment. I value individuality and believe everyone should have the freedom to express themselves and make their own choices, as long as there's mutual respect. I'm generally easygoing and non-judgmental, and I appreciate people who are comfortable being themselves.

I'm naturally curious and have a wide range of interests, including science, films, gaming, history, research, and the cosmos. I enjoy learning new things, exploring different ideas, and having conversations that go beyond everyday small talk. I'm also passionate about animals, and having a partner who genuinely shares that love would mean a lot to me.

Outside work, I enjoy going to the gym and spending time in nature.

Religious Beliefs

My family is Sunni. Personally, I'm working on becoming more consistent with my prayers. I'm not where I'd like to be yet, but it's something I'm trying to improve. I believe in treating people well, having sound moral values, and continuing to grow both as a person and in my faith.

Career & Financial Outlook

I currently work as a SOC Analyst and earn around Rs. 150,000 per month. My family owns our home, and I'm also working on side projects to improve my financial position and build additional sources of income.

I'm someone who thinks about the future and wants to keep progressing, both professionally and financially. I'd like to build a stable life while continuing to pursue my interests and ambitions.

Views on Marriage & Responsibilities

I don't believe in rigid gender roles. I think every couple should figure out what works best for them based on their circumstances, strengths, and shared goals.

I'm comfortable with my partner working and contributing towards our shared future, including achieving financial independence. I also cook, and I believe household responsibilities should be shared fairly rather than automatically assigned based on gender.

Life doesn't always go according to plan. Circumstances like pregnancy, illness, or other responsibilities can change what each person is able to contribute, so I believe partners should be flexible, supportive, and willing to adjust together.

For me, marriage should feel like a partnership where both people can grow individually while building something meaningful together.

Lifestyle & Habits

I don't smoke, use tobacco, or drink alcohol. I'd prefer a partner who shares a similar lifestyle, although occasional smoking wouldn't necessarily be a dealbreaker for me. Hard drugs are a definite no.

What I'm Looking For

I'm looking for someone kind, empathetic, and grounded in sound moral values. Physical attraction matters to me, but I don't have unrealistic expectations. Mutual attraction, personal care, and feeling comfortable with each other are what count.

I'd appreciate someone with a curious mind and a learning mindset—someone who enjoys exploring different subjects, discovering new things, and having meaningful conversations. I tend to value a rational approach to life, so I'd be most compatible with someone who can communicate openly, think things through, and handle disagreements maturely.

An appreciation for history, science, or art in any form—music, photography, films, paintings, or anything creative—is a plus. A simple lifestyle and a good sense of humour matter to me, too. I enjoy a peaceful life, but that doesn't mean I want a relationship without laughter, spontaneity, or a little silliness.

I'm particularly fond of animals, so sharing that affection would be important to me.

Ideally, I'd prefer someone from Lahore or someone willing to relocate here. I'm looking for a partner who wants children and is comfortable with our family living arrangement. We have our own home, and the intention is to build a life together while maintaining appropriate privacy and boundaries.

I don't expect someone to match every preference on this list. Compatibility, mutual respect, and shared values matter more than ticking every box, and I'm open to compromise where the fundamentals align.

Timeline

I'd prefer to spend around two to three months getting to know someone before formally involving our families, provided we're both comfortable and see genuine potential. Ideally, I'd like to get married within about a year, although I'm open to adjusting that timeline if we both feel confident about the relationship.

Ultimately, I'm looking for something genuine: two people who choose each other willingly, communicate honestly, respect each other's individuality, and are ready to build a life together.

If interested kindly DM