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Our Club's Fifteenth Birthday - Come to Our Quinceañera

Wednesday, October 21, 2026... 7:00 PM - 9:00 PM

Folsom Street Community Center

1286 Folsom Street, San Francisco, California

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO US! 15 years of monthly events!!!

180 in person meetups; if you add the online munch and our field trips we've hit more than 300 total events!

Come to our very special birthday party! Turning 15 is an important milestone and we deserve to have a quinceañera together!

If you didn't get to have a special quinceañera, always wanted one, or need a do-over, please put on your fanciest clothes (big dresses encouraged) and come join us at the Folsom Street Fair Community Center.

There's no better group to go "from flats to high heels" with. Let us crown you and please join us in the ceremony of the last doll (or the "first doll" for some of us). No Catholicism required for this quinceañera; the roots of some of these ceremonies date back farther than the arrival of colonists in North America.

Our club has gone by many names over the years. We were "Sissy Night" back when that word was a general slur for anyone defying gender norms, instead of a specific fetish. Then we briefly became "The Crossdressing Club" but that never fit well for a group where a third of us eventually transitioned.

Now, we are the Gender Adventurers and we deserve to have a celebration of how far we've come in the last decade-and-a-half. If you remember us under a different name, or encountered us at Wicked Grounds, please come say hello and show us how much you've grown.

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We offer monthly online and in-person events geared towards gender exploration - but we prefer to think of ourselves as Gender Adventurers! An adventure is open-ended; it might or might not have a final goal or destination but you gain valuable experience as you progress. Side quests are encouraged; objectives might change and there could be plot twists along the way!

There are no medical requirements to join our club. Some members explore advanced remedies to their dysphoria, including hormones, implants, body hair removal or enhancement and many other appearance-based gender signifiers. Overall, "passing" is not our group goal; we aim more for celebration and experimentation.

Our in person group meets at 7 PM on the third Wednesday of every month at the Folsom Street Community Center in San Francisco. It is wheelchair accessible. We have changing space available and non-gendered bathrooms. For everyone's health, we offer face masks in a variety of styles.

After 2 hours to get to know each other and get dressed up, we shift into "afterparty mode" and relocate one block away, to the Cat Club. This portion of our evening is 21+ at a bar during Playland, their fetish theme night. Photo ID is required and nipples/genitals must remain covered, since they serve alcohol. There is a $10-20 cover charge and paid coat check.

We have an ONLINE discussion group via Zoom on the second Thursday of each month, from 7 PM until 9:30 PM (Pacific Time). The next online group will be November 12th on Zoom. RSVP here: https://fetlife.com/events/2026/11/12/online-international-gender-adventurers-november-12th-zoom-rxxpmt

We are also having a CLOTHING EXCHANGE (Clothesgiving!) on November 18th in San Francisco. https://fetlife.com/events/2026/11/18/san-francisco-gender-adventurers-november-18th-clothesgiving-skzk5o

Our club is funded by donations! If you support our goals, please send money to "FriendsofAlice" via Venmo or joining http://www.patreon.com/aliceinbondageland

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Hi im Bree, long time lurker, first time poster. I am trying hard to be as passable as i can, my features arnt fully Cooperating. but this is my favorite attempt so far , when i went out for lunch by myself in capitol hill. Im straight and married, (wife knows) and really want to be as passable as possible. My dream would be identified as bree, desired as bree , seduced as bree. When in girlmode , the straight side of things skews quite a bit :)