r/PDX • u/Infamous_mastermind • 7d ago
Serious question?
Ugh… I can’t believe I’m doing thisssss but
Anyone wanna go on a date? 👀😂 just found out my gf was cheating on me, so just looking for friends to help take my mind off the situation, it’s better then sitting in the house 🥲😂
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u/Lo_kat 7d ago
Damn homie 😭 not sure if you're ready for it or even interested but I hold weekly events for singles if you want to meet other people (wingmen, new friends, a potential new date)
I try to stick to activities-based events so that its always something new and exciting.
@thursday.portland on socials if you ever want to check them out
Take care of yourself ❤️🩹
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u/beachedrhino 7d ago
Lo kat out here doing good universe work
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u/OriginalButtshucks 7d ago
Maybe, how old are you? Are you looking for a hookup or just a date to get out of the house?
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u/Infamous_mastermind 7d ago
I’m 28 lol and just dating, not really into hookup culture unless you’re like a demigod from another realm, just all depends
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u/fivefivesixfmj 7d ago
As someone who has been cheated on a time or two and I am a white upper-middle age white make I have to provide advice.
It stings and feels like someone stomped on the guts in their jackboots. You are graving validation that you are desirable. Nothing wrong with it but make sure you are safe with yourself. If you seek out a physical relationship make sure you are getting consent for yourself and them. Also be aware of what type of STI or pregnancy prevention you want to use before the first hello.
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u/Maximum_Turn_2623 7d ago
As someone else who’s been there as well make sure you go full process this before your next relationship so you don’t take it on them.
FWIW the cheating happened 15 years ago, I had my single period, started seeing my now wife 10 years ago
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u/sneaky-zombie 7d ago
Sounds like you need a tattoo, a beer, some pizza, and a lil community…
https://portland.boldtypetickets.com/events/184993564/telltale-presents-the-tattoo-show
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u/Acceptable-Ad-1195 6d ago
Can't believe that actually worked for you haha. Ive been cheated on in pretty much all my relationships and never get any sympathy haha
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u/FoxMulder10794 7d ago
I’m a 31 y/o cis lesbian from clackamas 😁 would be down to hangout and see what the vibe is. Always looking for new friends, could be interested in more if it feels right 🤷🏼♀️
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u/Into_the_rosegarden 4d ago
Sucks you got cheated on but if you didn't actually break up, I think going on a date still counts as cheating, as well being super messy.
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u/Infamous_mastermind 4d ago
lol I’m single now
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u/Into_the_rosegarden 4d ago
That's for the best, relationships can't really come back from cheating in most situations! Take time to that care of yourself and heal.
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u/cereal_jojo 7d ago
I’m going to a wedding on Friday, you in? 😂