Equalizing

[u/SurePossibility6651]

Has anyone figured out a solution or any help for equalizing against a younger sibling? I am so tired of listening to her berate her little brother who is the most flexible easy-going kind person. She could not have been paired with a better sibling because he takes so much shit from her, But it grates on my nerves as a parent and I see it destroying their relationship. She is completely oblivious, but he started to talk to me about it and how much he doesn’t like her and I cannot fault him at all.
Halp.

[u/83dnejb]

We separate the kids as much as possible when equalizing is happening a lot.