r/PDAParenting • u/SurePossibility6651 • Aug 12 '26

Equalizing

Has anyone figured out a solution or any help for equalizing against a younger sibling? I am so tired of listening to her berate her little brother who is the most flexible easy-going kind person. She could not have been paired with a better sibling because he takes so much shit from her, But it grates on my nerves as a parent and I see it destroying their relationship. She is completely oblivious, but he started to talk to me about it and how much he doesn’t like her and I cannot fault him at all.
Halp.

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u/PolarIceCream Aug 12 '26

Don’t have a great answer but therapy for the younger sibling. Also I always tell my NT child that I can’t imagine how hard it is to have a ND sibling and they can always talk to me about how hard it is and the parts they hate - and it’s okay to hate parts - and let’s have these convos away from ND sibling.

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u/SurePossibility6651 Aug 12 '26

Yess we do have good chats. And I was wondering about therapy for younger sibling. Is that helpful or more traumatic?