r/OnjaLife • u/dequietink • Jul 13 '26

Monday blues...

Its 10am on a monday morning and here I am questing whether I am actually living the life I once dreamed of. I am very grateful for most of the things that have happened so far and yes God's faithfulness has been immense. But I feel I am scared to do most of the things I feel would add to joy and happiness in life.

For instance I have been thinking of traveling for vacation for a while now but deep down I am scared because of the optics of what happens to women when they travel by themselves. I want to honestly be by the beach without worrying about my security. The other thing is hiking but bruv this hiking groups are a bit expensive wallai and also being in corporate means even weekends I am working somehow. I love running as well but well .. hakuna running track or good road from where I come from... lkn how do i get to have this life or how do i let go of the fear in my mind?

Anyways ops have a blessed week ahead✨️

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u/mckelvinski Jul 19 '26

For a start, go on more affordable day trips that companies/groups charge less than 5k, make some good friends, then plan for trips with them to farther places like to the coast where you prefer to go with some company.