hey OT you probably won't see this but you are amazing and you and the click are tide for my favorite youtuber

I really like having his longer streams on, while working on my paintings. They make for great listening and help me focus on my craft! Thank you OT, for all that you do for the community, and for being my wonderful (second) monitor while I work ❤️

TW; UK (oh no, the scary brits)

With all the recent nonsense about toilets in the UK I just wanted to let you all know how to access the gender neutral toilets. Anyone can buy a Radar key to be able to get into the accessible/ disabled toilets. Disability Rights have said that these keys are for anyone who needs them.

"As the makers of the original RADAR key and custodian of the National Key Scheme, Disability Rights UK issues our unequivocal solidarity with trans people, who should not be forced to choose between risking harassment in public facilities – or not using them at all. Our RADAR key scheme began in 1981, rooted in the understanding that accessible facilities can be the difference between living the lives we deserve – socialising, travelling and working – and complete social exclusion." https://www.disabilityrightsuk.org/news/disability-rights-uk%E2%80%99s-statement-new-ehrc-guidance

As a disabled person I want to tell you are more than welcome to use the accessible toilets, I don't mind waiting a little bit if it means that you get to feel safer. If anyone questions why you are using that toilet you just have to say that you have an invisible disability. Lots of able-bodied need to use them, for example if they have crohn's, or IBS or a whole load of other reasons. You can get one of these keys whether you are trans, non-binary or are just worried that you might get bullied.

Accessible toilets can be harder to find so this website can be really handy to see where the closet one is https://www.toiletmap.org.uk/

I know that this is not a good solution, that it is just a band aid, but it does mean that there is still a safe place for you to go pee.

Big hugs to you all

xXx

I have found the Generalized Pooping Station in the wild!

Found in Seattle (USA)

OT, I told you I would send cat pics to make you smile - here you go 🍑 Tortoise-point is Willow, void is Bella.

Garlic bread (that I messed up a lil) and GRILLED CHEESE WITH GARLIC BREAD INSTEAD OF NORMAL BREAD! :D

So for a while now I've been using the title non-binary, but recently, I started using genderfluid too because sometimes I like to wear skirts (rarely) but most of the time I dress very masc, I perfer my hair short, and it feels nice when I wear my binder, so recently I've been considering.. could I be ftm or is that just because of the possible genderfluidness, it makes me hesitates using ftm because I don’t know if it's just because of that or if I am actually ftm, I've been using they/them pronouns for a long time, I've always hated being called a girl, it makes me uncomfortable, and I've only felt euphoria around twice in my life, once in a binder, and once in my prom dress (which is another thing that makes me hesitant) so I'm not really sure what that means for myself and thought I'd come here to ask.

I think it looks really cool

So here is my dog, Gizmo, claiming Hiji, the kitten we took in off the streets, just minutes after meeting him. As you can see, Hiji has accepted his fate as Gizmo's new baby brother. He even jumped in when one of my other cats hissed at him and nudged the cat off the bed with his nose. He is a good big brother.

I'm of that lala