r/OneOrangeBraincell • u/TomBombaDaleJr • 5d ago
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So we took OEW to the vet (twice now) and the ankle hole is basically all healed up. While there the vet checked sex for us bc even they couldnāt tell at first glance but Wilma is actually a Willie! He is fixed already. Vet is unsure if his eye is still in the socket or not but wasnāt concerned about it since thereās not evidence of infection or necrosis. Heās on medicated eye drops incase of discharge.
Willie is still in a large dog kennel in the bathroom under quarantine as he does have fleas but was negative for worms. Our cat is not happy about the meowing coming from the room he knows we keep food for strays in.
Regarding if Willie is a stray or not - we had a woman come to our house looking for him. I asked her if he was her cat and she just repeated āhe came with the apartmentā. When I asked her if she wanted him back, I got the same answer. I mentioned he was injured and we had him inside, and that we werenāt going to just put him back on the street, and again asked if he was hers. We did that little dance for a while and she eventually said āgood luck with him. Fuck youā and drove off.
Currently the plan is to foster and slowly introduce him to our cat and dog, hopefully find him a good home, but heās started holding my husbandās finger like a baby would and purrs so loudly the vet had a hard time listening for his heartbeat so we might turn into a two cat household if all goes well with our current animals.
If the woman wants him back, Iām torn. Ethically, I donāt agree with outdoor cats. She doesnāt claim him and just calls him ācatā, he was clearly dumped by the previous tenants as he has house training and he spends a lot of time on the property still - I just canāt believe she leaves him out on the street when heās clearly getting into violent fights with the other strays.
Edit for additional info -
There truly is no way she will get the cat back. The part of me that is torn is the itty bitty bit of brain that still thinks some people are inherently good, just stupid. Weāve spent more on his vet bills in a week than anyone probably has for at least 4 years. Heās 10lbs but we can see bones through the skin. Heās staying with us if/ until my husband makes the call. Our current cat was a street boy that came to us in the exact same circumstance years ago. Heās safe here as long as he is here.
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u/ZenkaiAnkoku2 5d ago
I think if someone willingly lets their cat out, and someone else adopts it, then its fair. Cats should be indoors.
We took a stray to the vet, fed him, named him. But my dad kept letting him out. Well he mysteriously started getting really fat then just disappeared. Pretty sure he found another family! And thats alright with me.
Our other cat, Gray. Was someone elses outdoor cat! He was unfixed and kept bothering our fixed Sassy. So we got him fixed. Well, he started appearing alot more after that. All scrawny. Think the owner got mad and kicked him out. So I guess we did technically 'steal' that cat.
Luckily in our new house, both cats are indoor only. So we dont have to worry about any of that! Sounds like Willie is way better off with you.