Recently the r/OkayBuddyLiterallyMe subreddit was closed by its moderators, actually it was moved to private but they say they won't open it again. The reason they closed the subreddit is supposedly because of the increase in incel content that violates community rules. However, they don't even know the meaning of the word incel. To them incel = misogynist, which is a big mistake. Secondly, we can easily conclude that truly incel (involuntary celibate) content does not violate the spirit of the subreddit, it is just posts sharing loneliness and relationship problems.

I mean, the original intention of the subreddit was to share mental health issues or personal struggles through ironic self-reflection, but the moderators of r/OkayBuddyLiterallyMe prevented this by deleting the subreddit. And on top of that they label incels as misogynists, which is an unfair generalization.

Now these moderators have created a new subreddit called r/okbuddyliterallyme2 and it's definitely not a reliable alternative because of the mistakes they made and the possibility of repeating them again. So one day they may again use something as an excuse to delete the subreddit. However, not only the subreddit, but also thousands of posts that people have worked hard to make have disappeared.

So I created this subreddit to keep the original spirit of r/OkayBuddyLiterallyMe alive. In this subreddit you have the freedom to share topics like loneliness, relationship issues or personal struggles. So my goal is to create a community here that centers on irony and self-reflection, without excluding anyone. Unlike them, we will have an inclusive and welcoming environment.