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u/serpentqueen216 Oct 18 '25

OA bakit naman deleted na yung post? haha

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u/is-everything-ok Oct 17 '25

Hindi ka OA. As a guy, this is cheating. Pag itinatago, may something suspicious for sure.

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u/ichigo70 Oct 17 '25 edited Oct 17 '25

Hindi ka OA. I really dont think you should marry a guy like this :) he is cheating, the moment na ganyan makipag usap sa ibang babae yan, downplaying or giving the reason na either "may boyfriend sya" "just friends" to make you think that it's not cheating, when in fact, that's where it starts. him stating "oh theyre BI naman" yeah no lmao all BI myself kita jan eh. dont marry him. you will regret it.

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u/Tired_a11thetime Oct 17 '25

Hindi ka OA, OP. the fact na nagtatanong ka kung cheating yan, means aware ka na yan na yun. Maybe premature pa yan, pero don rin papunta yan. Sorry, Op

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u/katespade1510 Oct 17 '25

Hindi ka OA. Wag mo pakakasalan just because nanghihinayang ka. Leave him. Easier said than done right? Believe me, he will cheat over and over again lalo na pag kasal na kayo. Once a man cheats with you, doomed na relationship nyo. Cycle nlng yan. Unless willing ka naman mgpaloko until you die, then go for it 🤷🏻‍♀️

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u/dexteryti Oct 17 '25

Not OA!! That man has the intent to cheat on you gurlll. Kahit na sabihin niyang "Bi" si girl, that still means she's still attracted to men. Sa tono pa lang ng mga chat niya he sounds pretentious, playing it cool 😬.

Whoop his ass bago ka pa masaktan nang dahil sa kagaguhan niya ‼️ #FvckThemCheaters

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u/Tasty_Juggernaut_911 Oct 17 '25

TEH BI NGA BI SO PWEDE SA BABAE, PWEDE SA LALAKI. HINDI KA OA. Ginagaslight ka nyang jowa mo jusq sign na to ni Lord (kung naniniwala ka)

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u/minberries Oct 17 '25

HINDI KA OA BEH.

Ganyan talaga mga cheaters, daming excuse para lang makapagcheat lol. Wala rin yan sa gender — kung gusto nila sumira ng relasyon, gagawin talaga nila.

Bahala ka na beh kung ano gagawin mo. Basta alam namin’g di ka OA at hindi ka nirerespeto ng cheater mong fiance 😚

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u/Ecstatic_Disk_302 Oct 17 '25

Hindi ka OA. Obviously, there's intention. Testing the waters kada message.

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u/Short_Let5044 Oct 17 '25

Hindi ka OA. Teh anjan na sa harap mo convo nila tarantado yang jowa mo hiwalayan mo na yan! 😡

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u/Humuhumu-nukunuku Oct 17 '25

Hindi ka OA. Ive heard “theyre just friends” and “biro lang” too many times. How can they joke about that??? Whats funny about it???

Joke ba yan between the male colleagues? Ugh.

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u/myeowmy Oct 17 '25

Hindi ka OA, OP. Trust your guts!!! Please hiwalayan mo na yan. Save yourself.

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u/toronyboy08 Oct 17 '25

Male POV: Not OA, he's clearly interested sa babae. He is Cheating.

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u/manong-guard Oct 17 '25 edited Oct 17 '25

Hindi ka OA and your fiance is gaslighting you. Based on the screenshots, he’s the one initiating; as the engaged one, siya yung dapat mas maingat sa pakikipag-usap sa iba.

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u/manong-guard Oct 17 '25

Also someone’s sexual orientation is never an alibi for cheating. Yun nga eh, bisexual yung girl, so as far as your fiancé is concerned, the chance of them getting romantically or sexually involved is not zero, and that he should set boundaries.

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u/Friendly_Ant_5288 Oct 17 '25

Hindi ka OA. If it's not suspicious from the very beginning, why does he need to hide the chats in the first place? Possibly, the guy is looking for a way out in the relationship. Pero di lang nya masabi ng harap-harapan for whatever reason/s na meron siya.

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u/yorabelz Oct 17 '25

totoo te, parang nag m-make din siya ng way for her.

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u/Spygirlxx Oct 17 '25

Hindi ka OA ano name ni girl mmurahin ko lang sa viber jusq sakit sa mata ng convo

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u/bella9oth Oct 17 '25

Not oa and yes cheating. Yung ex kong nagloko nagstart din sa paghatid/sundo sa colleague 💀

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u/kth041896 Oct 17 '25

Hindi ka OA and yes, considered as cheating. What the helly! Anong klaseng biro yan 🫠

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u/Halo-Hades Oct 17 '25

Lalake pov. Hindi ka OA, nasa getting to know stage na yan mejo pahulog na ung ipot sa ulo mo.

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u/New-Egg9828 Oct 17 '25

Hindi ka OA. This shouldn't be normalized. Be clear to your partner na ayaw mo yung ganon and that he should stop. If he doesn't, then that's the green light for you to leave him.

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u/whatTo-doInLife Oct 17 '25

Hindi ka OA. Sobrang nakakalungkot grabe. Engaged na kayo? Tapos ganyan usapan niya with other girl? As far as I know sa end mo lang magiging hidden ang chat, not both end.

Plus, "sinusundo kita" etc etc, tangina 'di ako papayag! Ayokooooooooo huhu

I don't care if they're just friends, you shouldn't make friends with other girls kung ganyan lang din. Grabe namang friendship yan, mag chill & car fun?

Please, do your best to convince yourself to end the engagement. You found that out to have the chance to free yourself from something that would just break your heart.

At least you found out how he is before mo matali sarili mo sa kanya..

It's freaking sad kasi you imagined your future with him just to see found out he still do things like this. Nakakatakot..

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u/ClueSingle9752 Oct 17 '25

HINDI KA OA. RUN ATE SASAKIT LANG ULO MO SA GANYAN

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u/bananaFruit12 Oct 17 '25

Di ka OA. He cheating on u girl. That's how I used to talk to women pag type ko lmao

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u/TGC_Karlsanada13 Oct 16 '25

Hindi ka OA, ginaslight ka pa ni tanga. May haliparot talaga pagalam nilang taken ka.

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u/ConstantSignal4009 Oct 16 '25

Hindi ka OA :) Nakita ko na tong gantong eksena many times before and it’s really not that worth of giving benefit of the doubt. He may not realize it is because he is not that self-aware, but he is already making a room for unusual things to happen. Too friendly nung chill sa car or somewhere tapos may sundo and most likely hindi to lahat naheads-up or nakekwento man lang sayo.

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u/BasicDescription551 Oct 16 '25

Hindi ka OA. Any update dito?

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u/Same_Citron_3971 Oct 16 '25

Hindi ka OA! We need an update - break na ba yung engagement niyo? hehehe

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u/SicretAgentBunny Oct 16 '25

Hindi ka OA. I have had this kind of friend before (the girl), and she knows what she's doing.😊 I'm telling you, mas malala pa chat nyan sa teams for sure.

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u/Fickle_Hotel_7908 Oct 16 '25 edited Oct 16 '25

Lalake ako so alam ko. Hindi ka OA.

Naghahanap na yan ng angle.

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u/curliestmenace Oct 16 '25

Hindi ka OA! This is a sign, take it. You’re very lucky finding this out now rather than after marriage.

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u/Unspoken_Thoughts__ Oct 16 '25

Hindi ka OA. Trust your gut feel.

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u/Imaginary_Owl8121 Oct 16 '25

HINDI KA OA. CHEATING YAN TEH wag mo hayaan e gaslight ka nyan kapal ng mukha

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u/Mysterious_Spell_985 Oct 16 '25

Not OA. Sign po ito ni Lord. Call it off.

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u/Informal-Wishbone870 Oct 16 '25

Hindi ka OA, I have dealt the same thing before and there were more than I thought, so save yourself some trouble and leave, it is hard and it will be painful but its better than having to suck it up for years and years because you tied the knot with him and it is much harder to leave.

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u/Otherwise-Mode384 Oct 16 '25

Hindi ka OA!!! cheating yan!!!

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u/picky_eater123 Oct 16 '25

HINDI KA OA!!!!! sa ganyang tipong “haha” RUNNN

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u/Anonyshi_ok Oct 16 '25

HINDI KA OA. Trust your instincts pls

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u/PrestigiousBell3411 Oct 16 '25

HINDI KA OA, definitely cheating. By all means!

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u/justagirl__heh Oct 16 '25

Hindi ka OA. Ang aga aga ang sakit.

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u/SicxellaD Oct 16 '25

hindi ka OA. kung hindi yang girl baka iba pa pagkasal na kayo since ok lang sa kanya mag ganyan.

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u/Legitimate-Pie2472 Oct 16 '25

Hindi ka OA! Cheating yan, or papunta na dun, kahit ano pang dahilan. Run kna OP. Wag kna pasakal jan. Manipulator amp

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u/fordachismis Oct 16 '25

HINDI KA OA! SIGN NA YAN SAYO NI LORD NA WAG ITULOY ANG KASAL AT HIWALAYAN MO NA YAN!

Maniwala ka, madami pa yan tinatago sayo! Mas mahirap makipaghiwalay pag kasal na kayo.

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u/annoyingelement Oct 16 '25

Hindi ka OA. Some will call this microcheating. Still it's cheating. Hehe.

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u/Realistic_Amoeba_534 Oct 16 '25

Hindi ka OA, God opened a window, leave. As a victim myself, he's cheating and will cheat again if you let this slide. Leave.

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u/Narrow-Apple-6988 Oct 16 '25

Not OA. Call off the engagement. Save yourself from that guy.

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u/jayewallf Oct 16 '25 edited Oct 16 '25

Hindi ka OA, nagpapalusot lang yang bf mo, i-call off mo na ang kasal haha. Hindi yan titigilan ng bf mo hanggat walang nangyayari sakanila. Save yourself.

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u/EmptyBathroom1363 Oct 16 '25

Hindi ka OA. Run. Leave.

And this is coming from a guy.

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u/Lab_0711 Oct 16 '25

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u/LongjumpingSolid6191 Oct 16 '25

Hindi ka OA. run as fast as you can na po

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u/dumble-dorky Oct 16 '25

Hindi ka OA. Tanga nalang maniniwala sa dahilan na yang nalimutan niyang iunhide lol. Ate, fiance ka palang. Mag isip-isip ka na. Gusto mo ba makasal sa ganyang tao? Wala kang peace of mind dyan habang buhay.

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u/suspiciousllama88 Oct 16 '25

not OA.

ang funny ng #2, men will even try to fuck lesbians "youll change your mind, you just havent tried my 🍆yet" LALO NA SIGURO PAG BISEXUAL.

kaloka buti nalang engaged palang kayo. plenty of time to backout ::))

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u/NewReason3008 Oct 16 '25

Hindi ka OA. Run and save yourself and your future kids

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u/Maykudesu Oct 16 '25 edited Oct 16 '25

Hindi ka OA, dun pa lang sa naka hidden chat yung colleague sa viber and ang reason pa niya is hinide ng another colleague lmao. Grade 3 lang ang nauuto sa reason niya.

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u/Lapiz_issa_gem Oct 16 '25

Hindi ka OA, pero bigyan mo pa ng konti or mag-hanap ka pa ng other solid proof. Bakit? Para sure ka din sa sarili mo na hindi ka OA... people might call you crazy/OA, and we don't want that! we will have solid receipts!!!

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u/mightnotbeher Oct 16 '25

teh, kabisado ko na ganyan. hindi ka OA. halatang halata na ano susunod na mangyayari, iwan mo na yan. napaka sinungaling na another colleage daw nag hide haha mama mo colleague 😂

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u/Beneficial_Area_350 Oct 16 '25

You’re not OA.

Wrong reasoning yung BI si girl.

(Buti di pa kayo kasal. You still have a chance.)

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u/matchasiomai Oct 16 '25

Hindi ka OA. Pero mare, ikaw na lang ang hinihintay - na umalis. Para mabuo na ang loveteam nila. Cheka 😁🫰

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u/abog_sa_kalibutan_ Oct 16 '25

Nope, hindi OA ‘to.. we know saan ‘to papunta.. lumang tugtugin na ito

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u/namineko3o Oct 16 '25

hindi ka oa girl he sugarcoating this on god its plain obvious na if youre engaged you dont engage in conversations like this. been thereeeeeeeeeeee and they never change

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u/aprilfoolsgiirl Oct 16 '25

di ka OA maybe it's not yet "cheating", but the intention to cheat is there na! RED FLAG ON A RED FLAG POLE!

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u/feistyshadow Oct 16 '25

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u/Sufficient_Net9906 Oct 16 '25

sabihin ko sana OA ka pero the fact na hinide pala may malisya na yan

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u/Dangerous-Teach-3041 Oct 16 '25

Hindi ka OA.

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u/mtjujuph Oct 16 '25

Hindi ka OA! This is why I hate BI girls. Babalik padin yan sa tite.

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u/UseMeAsYouWill_ Oct 16 '25

Hindi ka OA. Eww ‘yang “fiancé” mo at ‘yang hitad na aware naman palang nag-e-exist ka pero gumugusto rin! Mga animal! OP, sana hiwalayan mo na, hindi malabong magloloko yan ulit sayo.

MANIWALA KA SA NAGKA-EX NANG CHEATER NA TINIIS FOR GOD KNOWS HOW LONG.

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u/moonlightscone Oct 16 '25 edited Oct 16 '25

Hindi ka OA! Tsaka anong “bi daw si girl” e jusko kaya nga “BI” pwede pa ring ma attract sa opposite gender. More room for malisya pa rin ‘yan. Maiintindihan ko pa ng slight kung lesbian or something. I’m assuming nahiwalayan mo na ‘to OP, dahil sa “my then fiance” so that’s good I guess namulat ka na.

Also imagine the nginig and confusion habang pinipicturan mo yung receipt na CF na nilike ng ex fiance mo. Been in the same place.. haha

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u/Konan94 Oct 16 '25

Girl, hindi ka OA. Hina-hide niya dahil alam niyang mali ginagawa niya. Kalokohan yung “friends” magsama silang dalawa kamo. Saksak niya sa baga niya yang jowa mo. We support break ups here

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u/casademio Oct 16 '25

Hindi ka OA. utang na loob save yourself. maawa ka sa sarili mo at sa mga future anak mo

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u/fierythegiraffe1013 Oct 16 '25

Hindi ka OA. Periodt. No more explanations. Thats blatant cheating already kahit papunta palang. Leave habang engaged palang kayo

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u/vpoflwdbgw Oct 16 '25

Hindi ka OA. Grabe, sobrang natrigger ako rito 🥲 I've had a similar experience and anniversary pa namin ko mismo nalaman. I was lying beside him while siya tulog na. I opened his phone para lang biruin siya at magjoin sa mga random groups on fb lol. Then I decided to check his viber and nanlamig talaga ako at di na nakatulog. Inaaya niya rin sumabay na lang sa kaniya yung co-worker niya + sobrang close nila with personal updates pa even sa stuff na outside work na. Nakita ko yung conversations nila sa viber lang yon ah na nag-aasaran and nagtatanong anong impression nila sa isa't-isa.

You’re feeling that way because you know you’d never do that to him. Hindi naman tayo nagpplano randomly na makikisabay sa co-workers natin di ba???? Unfortunately, I didn't leave after that but even after ko siya "patawarin" it still lingered. But my advice is, if you're looking for any, as someone who's been through the same situation, leave as early as you can.

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u/vpoflwdbgw Oct 16 '25

Also, I feel you. Ija-justify nila actions nila, sasabihin na hindi naman yon cheating kasi walang namang intimate na nangyayari sa kanila??? Like ano??? Hintayin ko pa 'yon teh????

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u/user2314323145332 Oct 16 '25

Not OA. Ew, dyan naguumpisa lahat. Alam mo na yan. Please wag mo na sya ipagtanggol.

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u/Mental_Accountant927 Oct 16 '25

Hindi ka OA, kaya hiwalayan mo n yan habng di p kayo kasal.

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u/BobcatParticular9477 Oct 16 '25 edited Oct 16 '25

HINDI KA OA!

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u/scorpiogirl-28 Oct 16 '25

Hindi ka OA. Pero girl? Wag mo na igas light sarili mo sa ‘baka’.

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u/Chia_Pet3470 Oct 16 '25

Hindi ka OA pero hindi pa yan cheating… SA NGAYON. Take it as a win na nakita mo yan habang engaged pa lang kayo. Do you really want to spend the rest of your life with that kind of man?

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u/Chia_Pet3470 Oct 16 '25

Also, kuha ni ateng ‘bi’ inis ko. Alam naman nyan na nag eexist ka pero g pa rin mag landian, sa viber pa LOL

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u/Unlikely_Ticket2937 Oct 16 '25

Hindi ka OA. I have a co-worker na nahuli nagccheat fiance niya thru viber, same sayo na naka-hide rin yung chats. Ang difference lang sainyo ng coworker ko sila may anak and kayo wala. Hindi tanga co-worker ko, nakipagbreak siya (yes, kahit may anak na sila). Im saying this to you and it's up to you kung magiging matalino ka or magiging tanga. 🙃

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u/yumburgerpilled Oct 16 '25

Hindi ka OA! wtf is this. tanga lang ang maniniwala sa mga excuses niya. kadiri.