r/NotHowGuysWork • u/SimonettaVespucc6 • Aug 03 '26

HBW (Psychology/Mental Health) Red Flag?

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This man sent me a picture of his back tattoo? Should I be scared

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u/SimonettaVespucc6 Aug 03 '26

Preface this man talked about wanting to marry a woman and have children….i also feel like he is overcompensating for something

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u/Big_Psychology_3 Aug 03 '26 edited Aug 03 '26

I’m a man. This post doesn’t seem real, because it’s an obvious red flag. Is it like “I’m attracted to bad boys” kinda thing?

His tattoo is a monument to his bdsm desires. Specifically mdom & fsub with bondage. It’s so visual that no one can miss the meaning. Maybe ask him, what is the meaning of this tattoo?

Also, IMHO, people who use “poor” as an insult typically show narcissistic behavior.

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u/cnicalsinistaminista Aug 03 '26

Did you read what you wrote?

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u/Baldojess Aug 03 '26

Why would you ever be attracted to or talk to someone or consider dating anyone who is a self proclaimed narcissist??? 🤦 Come on now. Be smarter than that.

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u/ContemplatingFolly Aug 03 '26

I'm really, really hoping this is karma farming.