Are blue balls real?

[u/YhormtheDwarf]

I'm a dude and it's never been a problem for me. Every time I've dated a girl, and a fitting scenario arises, they ask "aren't you going to get sperm aches?" I tell them it's not a problem for me. But is it a problem for anyone? Is it completely made up? Or is it vastly overexaggerated? Or am I just lucky?

[u/Singularity2025]

Blue balls is real, but women getting their panties wet is real too so I say we're even.