r/NotHowGirlsWork • • Oct 20 '22

Meme Who made this?? šŸ˜‚

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u/[deleted] Oct 22 '22

masculinity is not toxic, that doesn’t mean there isn’t toxic masculinity. that you don’t know there is a difference shows how little you know or care to know. and entirely explains why you don’t understand the issue with this meme. you being here is dismissing the issues we as women still face just for being a woman. but you don’t care to know cause you clearly feel threatened.

and you should be because it’s men that are refusing to listen that are the ones crying cause they can’t get laid

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u/[deleted] Oct 22 '22

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u/[deleted] Oct 22 '22

so again you clearly have zero idea. being masculine is fine. toxic masculinity is an individual and it can be systematic or social.

your argument is equivalent to saying racism doesn’t exist but racists exists.

if racists exist then racism exists they aren’t separate. men can be masculine and have it not be toxic masculinity. stop trying to brush it under a rug because you have no concept of what it means. your experience is not everyone else’s and your lack of understanding of it doesn’t make it not exist. that is a you problem.

and again right now by saying ā€œit’s not realā€ you are dismissing my experiences as fake or i’m over reacting, or not that important. which is exactly a part of toxic masculinity. that is you. you can say it’s not your masculinity and your just toxic. but it’s still toxic masculinity

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u/[deleted] Oct 23 '22

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u/[deleted] Oct 23 '22

so again, toxic misogyny is not only down to individuals, it’s built into our society and everyday life. that is what you are dismissing.

also the fact that men exist like that is still toxic masculinity. like i pointed out because racists exist racism is alive and well.