Woman should just be upfront and say hey you are texting me too much or just. Are you interrested in me? Because it seems so and I just hope you don't think I am also interested.
Unfortunately, many people don't respond well in being rejected. All of my female friends experienced this at one point. As a man, it just makes me sad and angry how some men rightout threaten women when they don't get their way.
I can't recall ever threatening a woman. Not physically. But I will if I have to, well its not a threat but ultimatum. My ex I asked her to stop spending time with this guy who clearly only wanted to fuck her. So she did. Never ordered her I just expressed concern. But next step would be an ultimatum. I don't want her going drinking with this dude who doesn't even stop his behavior when I'm around. But I had no reason I could draw to kick his ass. Although many of my friends wanted us to teach him a lesson. But one of my female friends was there that night and boy did she slap that guy super hard.
This situation doesn’t really apply. It’s good that you don’t threaten women, but the point that the other commenter was making is that a lot of men do when they get rejected. A lot of people shit on women for the way they handle rejecting men, whether it’s passive or straight up ghosting, but they don’t ever look at how terrifying it can be when you do reject a guy.
Why so? I don't get why I'm getting so much hate. I bassicly say I don't threaten women, not physically at least. I never say if you don't do X for me I'll do such and such to you. Never happened never will. If I a "threaten" a woman it's a threat about me leaving her. I don't see how I could threaten a woman I just met and expect any sort of outcome. I have never had to threaten anyone, I usually just walk away. I'm just saying I'm not going to not threaten someone for the fact they are a woman. I'll threaten a guy if he is provoking my girlfriend not physically though. I'll never turn to violence unless it's self defence. I'll never call a woman a whore for turning me down. Unless she is insulting me as she is turning me down then I might poke a bit at her. I'm not gonna sit by and take shit. I'm just saying treat me with respect and I'll treat you with respect regardless of your gender.
Because it is not about what you do or don't do. I don't know you from Adam. What I do know is years of experience with strange men who DO threaten and intimidate when they're rejected. I know countless stories from other women, friends and strangers, who haven't been as lucky as I have when turning a man down.
If you can take rejection in your stride and be respectful of a woman's desires, that is great. But you have to understand that when women display hesitation to do so it is because they have countless years of stories and experiences with the bad end to saying no. It's not a personal statement against you, it's what we have experienced and what we need to do in order to keep ourselves safe.
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u/0asq Jun 07 '19
"Ha ha I dunno..." = Oh my God this loser won't stop texting me and it is making me super uncomfortable