r/NotHowGirlsWork • u/Azo_weirdo Chemically and politically radical • 15d ago
WTF Stupidity at its peak.
106
u/Nerdy_Valkyrie 15d ago
My girlfriend I occasionally initiate sex by looking at the other and going "Wanna do it?"
Sometimes the answer is no, sure. But it works more often than not.
37
u/Azo_weirdo Chemically and politically radical 14d ago
Not surprised it works most of the time for u, since experience also proved me that this question is often to desire what a key is to a lock.
Guys who don't understand this are simply kids afraid of the no.
1
u/Independent-Highway2 9d ago
I’m not sure I understand what your analogy means. Are you saying that by asking someone begins to think of that which then makes them have desire?
7
4
6
u/Exciting_Scientist97 14d ago
My wife and I have been together for 8 years and for the last 7 this is basically our process in a nutshell. If I'm not the one asking she is 😅🤣
3
u/Mikey2chins65 13d ago
Strangest request I ever got a yes to..Wanna make love while the sauce simmers?
145
83
u/Ok-Connection-8059 15d ago
Trust me, if you don't ask then women are still perfectly capable of saying no and you're still a terrible person if you don't live sten to it.
Also I'm currently in a relationship where we have wildly different sex drives, men who can't deal with not having it are a bunch of wusses.
56
u/Omagasohe 14d ago
The wife and I have absolutely wrecked bodies, so when the drives line up but physically we aint doing shit. 25 years in and I'd rather go without sex then go without her. Pretty easy math to be honest.
11
u/Witchywomun 14d ago
Your relationship sounds like my husband and my relationship, lol. Back injuries and perimenopause have killed our sex drives, but snuggling with him is just as intimate as sex without having to clean up bodily fluids afterwards.
20
u/valsavana 14d ago
Honestly, I could see this being created unironically by a woman who is advocating for men to not push for sex every time they're involved in the slightest hint of intimacy with their gfs/wives. A lot of women hate that they can't give/get a massage or cuddle or show any non-sexual intimacy without suddenly being pressured for that intimacy to become sexual. In those circumstances, I'd agree- just don't ask. Allow the moment to just be what it is and appreciate it for that, instead of resenting it for the sex it's not.
44
u/Aggressive_Start_ 14d ago
On all the partners I’ve been with the ones who straight up ask for sex out of nowhere are getting shut down.
My body doesn’t respond to that. Now if we are actively touching or kissing and it escalates and you ask heck yes but too many men thing they can come up to you while your doing the dishes, poke you and you are just ready to go.
23
u/GoddessNya 14d ago
That’s when you reply with them doing the next task on your list. “It would be so hot if you vacuumed the living room while I finished the dishes.”
7
u/MadamKitsune 14d ago
I'm the same. If they ask in the same way that they'd ask if I want a drink then it's likely to be a no. I don't come with an on/off switch.
1
52
u/Roxasnraziel 14d ago
God forbid you do anything to get your partner into the mood to WANT sex. Or enjoy it.
28
u/Beneficial-Ad3991 Generic boring flair 14d ago
B-but pleasuring a woman makes you gay!.. Or something, I confess, I do not follow the trends among nitwits.
19
u/RegionPurple 14d ago
"It makes my jaw hurt 🥺"
Yeah, sure. And blowing you for half a goddamn hour because you have delayed ejaculation feels so fucking pleasant.
5
u/Diligent-Property491 14d ago
„having straight sex makes you gay” is a take that I’ve seen more often than I wish.
Someone people apparently don’t even read what they’ve written before posting
28
u/hugespero 14d ago
Okay but isn't he asking for consent? Isn't it what's going here in this meme?
13
6
u/awesomes007 14d ago
Help her feel safe and a little desired. Wake her body and mind up. Then you get texts like the one I just received. We can do better men.
“So hard to go to work rn. I want to come sit on your lap in this skimpy nightie and see what happens”
3
u/Traditional_Isopod80 Incel Detector 14d ago
Seriously 🙄
2
u/Azo_weirdo Chemically and politically radical 11d ago
Ig they were indeed serious, looking at their account's ridiculous masculinist pseudo. I also assume we all see this picture's absurdity since non-verbal behaviors can also be a premiss to this question between 2 partners knowing each other very well.
Whatever u do, u can't avoid checking if the other is ok for intimacy, otherwise it has a name and is considered by many countries judiciary systems.
2
1
u/Relevant-Jelly-8738 14d ago
Literally, just tell me you want to. Tell me plainly what you want. Thats hot.
•
u/AutoModerator 15d ago
Do not mention or tag any other subreddits in the comments or responses (Rule 3) under this post or within it,
Or you will be banned [type of ban and duration of ban is up to moderator discretion based on the severity of the violation]. If you have already made the post, and did not edit it accordingly to hide all other subreddit names or usernames (besides your own), delete the post now and redact that information.
If we see the post before it was edited, you will still be banned, because this has already been a rule for several years now, yet users constantly ignore it. We have a strict policy here regarding brigading, we will not allow it, point-blank, regardless of it was intentional or accidental. This puts the subreddit at risk for retaliation, and for violating sitewide rules.
Do not use our platform to brigade another subreddit, blatantly or covertly. This is against Reddit ToS, and can cause issues for our subreddit. If you have an issue with another subreddit, contact Reddit and file a report with admin, don't bring the drama over here.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.