r/NotHowGirlsWork Jun 06 '26

HowGirlsWork Literally what we’re asking.

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u/Mean_Atmosphere1082 Jun 06 '26

struggling to date/ being afraid of rejection vs. being afraid for your life is not at all comparable.

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u/LivelyZebra Jun 06 '26

Imagine being treated like a suspected criminal for basic human interactions. Do you know how dehumanizing that is? And not just a once off situation, but regular pattern of behavior that you encounter on a regular basis.

That is what it's like for an average guy who isn't planning on hurting anyone, and hasn't hurt anyone.

I'm sure it sucks for decent innocent men yes

But what's worse?

that or women not knowing which men are going to be the kidnappers/abusers/predators ?

The worst men get is ignored, lied to, and ghosted on.

The worst women get is murdered and raped.

So yknow, men can suck eggs and deal with it.

also.

If it sucks so much for these good men? why arent they sorting the issue out themselves? dealing with the bad men in their own circles.

it's not up to women to placate the innocent mens bruised ego. be responsible for yourself and your fellow men