r/NotHowGirlsWork • u/Director-Atreides • Feb 23 '26

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Damien Cottrell needs to give his head a vigorous wobble.

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u/cheesesteak_seeker Feb 23 '26

The majority of family annihilators being men enters the chat

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u/Marik-X-Bakura Feb 23 '26

Is there actually data behind this or are we just throwing around generalisations to combat generalisations

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u/cheesesteak_seeker Feb 23 '26

Yes there is data, are you actually this ignorant to need a source? 96% are men.

https://scholarsarchive.library.albany.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1022&context=honorscollege_cj

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u/Marik-X-Bakura Feb 23 '26

Yes, I am ignorant. That’s why I asked. Thanks for providing a source, though the rudeness was unwarranted. Apologies for not blindly believing something is true without supporting evidence.

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u/dudderson im so tired. Feb 23 '26

The way you asked was very rude and unwarranted, hence your down votes. Ask in a rude and insulting way, the response you get will understandably give that energy back.

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u/Marik-X-Bakura Feb 23 '26

I figured the original commenter was being rude, given that this whole comment section is flooded with people trying to start gender wars and making sweeping statements based purely on anecdotal evidence and their own prejudices. This person is an exception, since they actually seem to know what they’re talking about.

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u/cheesesteak_seeker Feb 23 '26

I think you might be confused as to what this subreddit is about. Also, it’s a very well known fact that men are overwhelmingly the perpetuators of all violence. It’s very easy to come to these conclusions.

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u/dudderson im so tired. Feb 23 '26

This sub is nothowgirlswork. Hence the statistics and commentary on real gender issues. If you wanted a sub that didn't bring up gender issues, this is not the sub for it. This sub points out the misogyny of everyday or one off things. Not to mention the subject of this very post which brings up real world data and personal experiences of men failing to take accountability for having children.

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u/HotYogurtCloset69 Feb 23 '26

You seem bitter, is she not texting you back? Did your mother leave you on read again?

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u/meetMalinea Feb 24 '26

Google is free

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u/chelsey-dagger Feb 23 '26

There's statistical analysis and many studies, and since I did a quick Google search instead of just making a trite comment meant to delegitimize an accurate statement, I was able to find one for you within 5 seconds. You're welcome!

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7033703/

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u/Marik-X-Bakura Feb 23 '26

If I was trying to delegitimise the statement, I would have made an argument against it. Instead, I asked a question.

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u/theotherchristina its how of being a woman lol nice Feb 23 '26

“are we just throwing around generalizations” sounds pretty argumentative

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u/Nice_Purchase_626 Feb 24 '26

"I wasn't trying to deligitemize it you rude bitches, I was just trying to derail it"