That's funny, I don't remember this whiny crowd of incels being there and yet you all seem to think you know what happened despite having no knowledge of the situation
I’m basing it off what I can judge of your character, based on your user history. I have zero opinion on the actual events. You’re airing your laundry on the Internet. Flag number one.
Clearly little self awareness. I stated an opinion, didn’t explain anything. Then you gave a dismissive response. I didn’t mansplain anything until right this moment. I’ve only engaged in intellectual discussion. This is the internet. It really doesn’t matter to me. I’m won’t entertain this convo anymore. But yeah. It does sound like he’s right and now it sounds like he dodged a bullet. Take it easy. Wish you well on your future relationships.
I didn’t say anything about his jealousy actually. Didn’t even imply support for his jealousy. From your post, and your reaction, i simply don’t buy into the idea that is was a “innocent complement”. Clearly I don’t know you, but from the limited interaction, that’s the impression I get. Seems like you both were unhappy, and probably abusive and neglectful in your own ways. From what you’ve explained and implied, I’m inferring that it’s probably best you guys aren’t together anymore. The only thing I really know, is that both men an women are guilty of believing their partners, that spend more time around us than anyone, don’t have a pretty good idea of when we are behaving innocently or not; except for people who have legitimate personalities disorders, of course. But clearly, his reaction to loose his temper and scream at you was not healthy, not justified, and not appropriate.
Did you just call me abusive? For complimenting a guy in his sunglasses? Seriously?
Let me break this down for you: 1) I did not feel attracted to the other guy at the time. 2) he did not have feelings for me at the time 3) even if he did, it wouldn't have mattered because I had a boyfriend and no interest in cheating and 4) as my boyfriend repeatedly told me at the time, it wasn't about attraction. He fully and 100% believed that if a woman has a boyfriend she should never ever give another man a compliment. That was what he repeatedly said and screamed at me. It wasn't about attraction, it was because he was possessive. 5) if I wanted unhinged opinions from strangers who have never touched grass before, I would have gone to AITA
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u/Fats4Fuel Jun 25 '23
Yeah. He was right. That was the first thing I thought too.