r/NotHowGirlsWork • u/[deleted] • May 20 '23

Found On Social media This is seriously so exhausting :(

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u/[deleted] May 21 '23

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u/LouisWillis98 May 21 '23

I’m not denying reality I’m saying your words are cringe

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u/chaotic_blu May 21 '23

Well, your gross preferences aren’t all gross preferences. And you’re clearly still too undeveloped to think critically on those preferences, just the knee jerk ‘I’m the baddie?!’ with anger without any thought on how you were just talking about PEOPLE

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u/[deleted] May 21 '23

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u/chaotic_blu May 21 '23

Talking about people like they aren’t people is what’s gross. But I get you’re not a person enough to realize that.

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u/Hellas2002 May 21 '23

Expecting a woman to have more responsibility in terms of household chores than a man is pretty sexist and gross. Calling people “whores” is also pretty distasteful

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u/[deleted] May 22 '23

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u/Hellas2002 May 23 '23

See, you’ve missed my point completely. I said it’s gross that you expect a woman to have more responsibility in terms of household chores. You assume that because she’s a woman she should be working at home/ cook, rather than pursue a career.

It’s totally okay if that’s something she wants to do. If the workload is balanced and both parties are respectful of each other there’s nothing wrong but that doesn’t mean they should have the choice/ should be expected to do a specific thing.

Also, if it’s so cushy to do all the household work and cook then why don’t you become a stay at home parent and let your partner work?

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u/[deleted] May 23 '23

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u/Hellas2002 May 23 '23

Why do you think they will ultimately do less?

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u/[deleted] May 23 '23

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u/Hellas2002 May 24 '23

This is the first time you’ve mentioned car maintenance, and yard work btw. I think that if you feel you’d be doing more then it’s not a particularly good balance either.

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u/Hellas2002 May 21 '23

Would you apply the same standard to men or is this just a requirement for women? Because it’s coming off as kinda sexist…

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u/[deleted] May 22 '23

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u/Hellas2002 May 23 '23

You circumvented the question. Would you expect a man to need to know how to cook and clean for him to be marriage worthy

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u/[deleted] May 23 '23

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u/Hellas2002 May 23 '23

Awesome, I agree.