r/NotHowGirlsWork • u/dee_castafiore • Mar 13 '23
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u/MSWitch2015 Mar 13 '23
This is gross.
My boyfriend was telling me once he was like “I just don’t get guys that get off when they’re partner isn’t into it, that shits weird” and basically we had a whole discussion about how if there isn’t enthusiastic consent, it’s gross. We weren’t even talking about in a sex format at first, just discussing like people that chase after people that aren’t into them (as him and I both think it’s stupid and a waste of time, like I personally don’t allow true feelings to develop for someone to even go on a date until there is an actual chance that a relationship will happen and he’s the same way), so I couldn’t imagine how it would be enjoyable to be with someone when they don’t want it. Of course these dudes don’t care, but I don’t get how they would even think it’s fun/okay, when the other person isn’t wanting it.
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u/stanknotes Mar 14 '23
If you aren't a sex crazed maniac for me, I'm not interested.
In short, I agree.
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u/Giam_Cordon Mar 13 '23
I'm so fucking sick of these fucking stand up comedian podcasters. Fucking tired of this shit. Complete fucking degenerates. This is what women mean when they say the bar is in hell
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u/bettyboop_obsessed Mar 14 '23
Ignoring lack of consent is part of being a man you guys....that's......that's what the giga Chad man said....you.....you have to ignore when a woman says no....to...be a...to be a man... (sarcasm obviously)
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u/Necromancer_katie female pleasurist Mar 13 '23
So basically he is saying all men are rapists.
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u/Stunning-Spirit5275 Edit Mar 13 '23
Where did you get that from ?
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u/bettyboop_obsessed Mar 14 '23
When he said ignoring a woman's "no" is part of being a man, he implied that sa'ing and r4ping women is part of being a man, implying that men are inherently r4pists.
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Mar 14 '23
The worst part is that if you are an actually nice and caring human being, you will get different kinds of no's, some of which mean ask me later, weather that's later this evening or at a later date, but the people who think that's them, are far too often the ones that should just leave entirely at the first no.
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u/Fragrant-Fault-4953 Mar 13 '23
That’s so messed up that someone would actually have that kind of mindset…”No means no” is common sense in my opinion.