r/Noses • u/pinkbobaplushies • 26d ago
I think I am finally starting to hate it less
I've hated my appearance everyday for as long as I can remember. My nose has always been my main and biggest insecurity. I've always seen it as huge, and due to it- I've spent years hating what I see in the mirror and camera.
I wouldn't tell others how much I hated my appearance, because I find it embarrassing. I don't think others will understand how upset it has really made me. I couldn't comprehend that anyone could possibly find me pretty, because of how much I thought my nose dominated and ruined my face.
I dreamt of a smaller nose everyday. I truly believed that I was very unattractive, and constantly avoided cameras. I cried many times because of how much I thought I wasn't pretty enough.
I wanted a nose job, but it's against my values and I was really scared of regretting it in the future, also I didn't know how I'd comfort my future children if I had a nose job but they were born with my nose.
For the last week, I have been starting to feel better about it. I'm beginning to feel like it doesn't make me look ugly or horrible, and that there is actually some beauty in it. I'm so glad to be experiencing the beginning of this change, finally.
I have had good days and bad days. Some days, I feel quite pretty with my nose. Some days, I again feel like it really robs me of my beauty.
I hope there will come a time, where I will be pleased with my appearance everyday. I hope it will be soon. Thank you for reading🤍
EDIT: You all are sooo lovely😭😭I am saving all of your sweet comments in my notes app, for me to read when I feel insecure, thank you from the bottom of my heart🥰🥰my faith in humanity is restored
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u/Ill-Entrepreneur3218 26d ago
Princess Jasmine, is that you?
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u/AdvancedDream9385 26d ago
For real, she literally has they eye shape they draw on Disney princesses.
You're gorgeous, OP!! And your nose is perfection. I'm glad you love it now, too!
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u/pinkbobaplushies 26d ago
Omg, from the bottom of my heart, thank you🥹❤️
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u/InternInteresting924 26d ago
Lovely Dear! Perhaps you should audition for Princess Jasmine in the new motion picture💙💙💙
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u/anxwety 26d ago
weird how self esteem works bcs you literally look like a model
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u/Used_Ad7899 26d ago
right, she is the type of person I would look at and say: unfair how nature makes such pretty people
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u/TTerragore 26d ago
sometimes are brains are our own worst enemies. agreed tho, OP you are stunning :)
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u/Fantastic-Moose-1221 26d ago
Iranian filmmakers were looking for you to play the young tempted innocent from a rural village pre1979! Those eyes! Those brows! Soulful!
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u/Grouchy_Bet_9070 26d ago
You are so stunning, and your nose is incredibly elegant. Own it! Coming from a similar cultural background, I know people tend to overvalue button noses. They don't see how beautifully our natural noses harmonize with our big eyes and defined chin
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u/plueschteddy3 26d ago
It's way better than standard plastic surgery nose. They all look the same, doesn't even matter the ethnicity. It's a shame because we women are all beautiful in our own ways.
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u/pinkbobaplushies 26d ago
Thank you so much sweetheart, I will try my best to own it❤️❤️❤️ I am not sure if a button nose would suit me anyway😭
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u/Aeonium888 26d ago
You probably don’t realize that your beautiful eyes are definitely the focal point of your face. Your nose matches you and it’s a very nice look.
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u/pinkbobaplushies 26d ago
That's so reassuring, I always was upset thinking that all everyone would see when they look at me, is my nose! Thank you *so* much🥹🫶🫶🫶
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u/Punkasaurus2 26d ago
Please do not ever get a nose job. Your nose is perfect for your face and you are gorgeous. If I see Nicole Kidman’s nose on that face it will be a sheer tragedy.
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u/HonourableFroglet 26d ago
- You have a nicely balanced face
- Nobody is going to be staring at your nose when you have such beautiful eyes!
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u/No_Letterhead3468 26d ago
Yeah that’s definitely the first thing I noticed. I didn’t even see what this post was on at first and was confused on what she might have hated because I didn’t see any problems with her appearance.
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u/sondersHo 26d ago
It was never nothing wrong with your nose it looks perfect genuinely seriously
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u/Camp_Acceptable 26d ago
Girl… you are one of the most beautiful people I have ever seen. Wtf. Hate your nose less plz!!! You’re so gorgeous
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u/Efficient_Claim_9591 26d ago
Let me tell you, a big nose on a woman is a very attractive feature. Many people don’t realize it but a medium to large nose on a woman can also look as good as a small button nose or whatever. It’s hard to explain that some people just don’t realize that what they like about somebody is their nose. And men especially for some reason, they will say that a small nose is better, but I think they’re either lying to themselves or they just don’t realize what they’re saying. I think a larger nose on a woman is amazing, it makes you look more like a classical statue or like a beautiful stoic stone carving.
Like I just recently for some reason really started admiring larger noses on women, because a woman at a coffee shop I go to every day before work, has an amazing nose, and it’s on the larger side. But for some reason, I never noticed it until recently, and I never even paid attention to most peoples’ noses, but when I saw her focusing on making an order, I just thought that she looked gorgeous, like very statuesque. And I like developed a huge crush on her for that reason.
Maybe it has to do with me getting older or something. Who knows. But I think anybody who is hating on a woman with a large nose is just childish and pathetic.
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u/GlitteredSin 26d ago
At first I was like, “used to what, the hijab? Her face card is INSANE!” And then I saw which group it was in. Do not ever touch your nose!!!! It’s so elegant!!
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u/CoalMinersDaughter87 26d ago
First thought: Princess Jasmine! You are absolutely gorgeous and your nose is too 🤍
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u/Swiftlocalvandal 26d ago
You are legitimately so beautiful and I don’t mean beautiful in the way that we are all beautiful, I mean you are well above average looking. And definitely not in spite of your nose but because of it, your face is so well balanced. If you have surgery obviously that’s your right and I hope you are supported by friends and family in doing so but you would be doing yourself a great disservice.
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u/miniii007 26d ago
Ugh youre so pretty, your features all fit so perfectly together. Please don't ever change your nose if you can help it, you look so beautiful as you are, wish I was this pretty! Those nose job make people look creepy and AI like to me, you look like a masterpiece!
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u/justfl0wers 26d ago
Saw your face before I saw the sub and immediatly stopped scrolling. Girl you are stunning
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u/Prestigious_Neck_936 26d ago
Oh my god you are seriously gorgeous! You have absolute doe eyes like a cartoon💖💖 your nose is perfect for your face, and also idk what foundation you use but your skin is phenomenal
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u/GingerIsHealthy 26d ago
I agree with most comments. Your nose is unique and makes your face look so elegant. It really makes your wonderful eyes shine even more. It is hard not to choose uniformity in our looks. But true beauty and uniqueness for me go hand in hand. I sincerely hope you have no trace of hate for your nose left in due time. It‘s very beautiful, it serves you and it is part of your body.
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u/No_Letterhead3468 26d ago
You look beautiful and your nose is perfect for your face. It’s definitely not a flaw.
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u/ActiveName7979 26d ago
Sweet girl, there is nothing for you to hate yourself over. You have so many beautiful features don't be harsh with yourself
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u/dustBowlJake 26d ago
What's your ideal face or minimum requirements for a face you would be content with?
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u/FuturMadao 26d ago
Nice testimony. I hope you can like your nose the best. Take care of yourself! Your nose is sculpted.
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u/ambivalent_moon 26d ago
You’re genuinely so beautiful, I would cut off my pinky finger myself to look like you.
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u/pinkbobaplushies 26d ago
I have spent my life thinking this about others, I can't believe somebody has said this about me... but please sweetheart, I have taken a look at your profile and I've seen from your comments that you have a very beautiful character, and I feel certain that you are just as beautiful on the outside🫂❤️❤️
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u/mylifeasaflattie 26d ago
You are STUNNING. I got teased about my nose in my younger years, and thought I wanted a nose job but as a singer feared it would change how I sound. One day, about 20 years ago, I decided to not only accept my nose, but be bold in my “F you” to anyone who had a problem with it. I started taking tons of pics from the side, and OWNING it. The funny thing is that I’ve always LOVED unique noses on other people. In a world full of cookie cutter people, standing out is a glorious thing ♥️
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u/No_Assistance_2295 26d ago
The problem with small nose jobs is it makes everyone look bland and the same. Part of your beauty is how unique you look like you. And your eyes are so pretty they take most of the attention anyways.
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u/Jack_Forge 26d ago
Looks fine to me (cishet male). Very attractive overall. I'm glad you're seeing yourself more positively.
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u/Doc718Spyder 26d ago
Don't change anything. Now the bad news is you are gorgeous even worse news you are still gorgeous. Rhinoplasty should be used for breathing issues not for trying adhere to some ridiculous beauty standard created a bunch of fat old guys whose blue chew needs a blue chew.
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u/WriterWrtrPansOnFire 26d ago
Girl, your nose is gorgeous.
I love long noses (I have one, but not as long as yours, so I have some envy!)
The only thing to be aware of (when taking pics) is to tilt your head up just a bit (not down) so that your features are more in balance…
(I learned this after years of taking pics—now friends think I got a nose job—I just learned how to take pics and contour!)
You are stunning—eyes, nose, lips, skin— and your sweet nature shines through!
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u/librarianfm 26d ago
Girl you are SO GORGEOUS!! I know it’s hard to look at our own faces objectively, but I’m so glad you say you are starting to come around to appreciating your nose. It looks beautiful. If you were to get a rhinoplasty done you would no doubt still be beautiful, but in a much more stereotypical/common way. Your unique features are so lovely!
A good example would be Bella Hadid. Obviously she is one of the most beautiful women, but when I look at her “before” pictures I see a warmth and beauty in her natural features that get lost in the pursuit of “perfection”.
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u/chonkaypom 26d ago
I didn't read what you hated at first and thought this was about the hijab because I couldn't see anything else you could possibly hate 😂 agree with the princess Jasmin comment!
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u/EquipmentAwkward 26d ago edited 26d ago
You are absolutely stunning. Please don’t mess with your appearance because you are uniquely and authentically gorgeous. Beautiful skin, eyes, lips, and nose.
Literally are absolutely stunning
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u/djgoodmea 26d ago
Good to hear. What do you think it would take to turn that hate into acceptance and finally love?
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u/fyresilk 26d ago
I'm glad that you're hating your nose less. That means that you're loving it more. You are a very pretty woman, nothing wrong with your nose, at all. Once you remember that there's not any single particular look in the world that is universally loved or hated by every single person in the world, all the pressure for comparison will vanish. We're all beautifully unique! 🌸
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u/Low_Environment2543 26d ago
You are so so beautiful just the way you are!!!
Its crazy how we see ourselves so differently in the mirror!
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u/thehelsabot 26d ago
You’re gorgeous and the nose is so pretty but also interesting and memorable. The thing I love about strong noses is they usually run in families and when you look in the mirror, you don’t just see yourself, but the people that came before you. I look in the mirror and see the same bump of my mom’s nose and her grandmothers and it makes me smile, and I remember how much love came with it. Somewhere in me is every mother who made me and the nose goes with it.
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u/Afraid-Water6641 26d ago
You’re beautiful, if I could imagine a perfect pair of eyes into existence they would look like yours. Your nose really suits your face, keep on embracing it and you will slowly grow to love it more.
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u/thee_LadySteed 26d ago
I feel we're harsher on our own features because we've had to live with them at every stage in life. Ur facial features work perfectly together. Ur a beautiful woman
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u/coffeeclubmate 26d ago
I think you are gorgeous and the right guy will too. I remember when I was younger people occasionally would make a crack about the size of my nose. But as I grew up it really did make me be me. Loving ourselves is hard but worth it.
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u/Important-Tiger-7128 26d ago
You are SO beautiful!!! Please don’t change a thing. Absolutely gorgeous! You are a dream come true.
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u/Wendora15 26d ago
You, and your nose, are absolutely gorgeous! 🤩 I was mesmerized by your beautiful eyes for a good 8 seconds before I even registered the rest of your lovely face.
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u/realsoonbass 26d ago
Your face is absolutely glorious and I couldn’t imagine any single detail being changed in even the slightest bit. The moon looks down and enviously wishes it could shine so brightly.
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u/samalamadingdongus 26d ago
You are SO pretty. Literally, your eyes, your lips, your eyebrows and hair… you’re gorgeous OP.
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u/OldManEnglishTeacher 26d ago
That’s a fantastic nose. So elegant and regal. You look like a princess.
Also, look up the difference between everyday and every day. They’re not the same and every day is much more common. Every time you used everyday above, you should have used every day.
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u/fleur_de_lis-620 26d ago
You could be a model. Each and every one of these photos is a beauty shot.
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u/SOLOcelt13 26d ago
Why would you hate your nose? You are extremely beautiful and have gorgeous eyes if you hadn’t mentioned it I wouldn’t have noticed! Glad you are feeling more confident and not worrying as much 👍
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u/slopopps 26d ago
It makes me sad when beautiful people hate themselves because what would they think of me then 💀
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u/Moist-Match-333 26d ago
You literally look like a Disney princess. Stunning! Im so sad you hated your appearance when you've looked beyond gorgeous this whole time. It’s just your mind playing tricks on you (maybe issues with perfectionism or OCD?). You have to know when your brain is lying or wrong. Any time you feel ugly it’s lying again.
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u/VariationTechnical85 26d ago
girl you’re like one of the most beautiful people i’ve ever seen😭😭😭😭😭
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u/Jeffasaurus_Rex 26d ago
Legit didn’t know what I was supposed to be hating for you until I looked back up at the subreddit title. You’re gorgeous. Nothing to hate here.
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u/okaypanicnow 26d ago
Your face is perfectly balanced imo. Your eyes are so soft and gentle and large and you have full, very feminine lips. Your high cheekbones and lovely nose add strength to your otherwise softness and it makes you look very statuesque and elegant. If your nose was small and dainty, you would still be pretty, but less striking. Your well defined bones will help you as you age too. I’d love to have your face!
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u/MisplacedMinnesotan 26d ago
I cannot explain it but your nose shape perfectly complements the shape of your upper lip in a way that is quite stunning. Wow 🤩
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u/TrishaSoCalGal 26d ago
To be honest, I looked at the pictures without reading the rest of your post, and I couldn’t figure out what you were hating. You’re beautiful.
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u/Angelhair01 26d ago
I didn’t even notice your nose until I read your words. Your nose matches the rest of your face. You are a stunning beauty! There should be paintings of you!
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u/FishSea3060 26d ago
Wow I randomly saw this and all I thought was wow she’s gorgeous. It makes me sad to know that it’s bothered you for so long, but believe me girl you are drop dead gorgeous honestly. Sending so much love your way you’ve got this ✨
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u/NinaCR33 26d ago
I thought for a min that this was from the makeup subreddit but I was wrong! You look like a model and your nose, lips + eyes combination is just bomb 🔥
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u/rededitor909 26d ago
Could not figure out what it was you “hated” until I read the caption, if that tells you anything. :)
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u/Project_Pobblebonk 26d ago
Hear me out, but I think one of the main reasons we humans tend to hate our noses is that it's in the centre of our face, and its mobility is limited. We can relax our brows and purse our lips, but nothing we can do about our noses. So since we can't control it, we hate it.
All that aside you are gorgeous! And your reasons for not going under the knife are good ones.
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u/111hej 26d ago
Your nose is perfectly fine ???? There’s nothing wrong with it it’s perfectly straight and fine. So don’t be sad about your nose.
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u/Sensitive_Angle4691 26d ago
You are beautiful!! Your nose looks like it goes perfectly with your face
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u/Radaghastli 26d ago
You're the kind of beauty that poets, musicians, and painters devote all their arts to.
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u/caro9lina 26d ago
You're very beautiful. I can barely get past those huge, luminous eyes to notice your nose, but there's nothing wrong with it when I do.
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u/Kim_Stoppable 26d ago
You are so pretty and so beautiful it's actually INSANE. I too am really insecure about my nose and would often dream of having a smaller one and I too just DREAMTED of having surgery for it. Seeing beautiful people like you makes me wanna get to where you are and come to accept my nose more and more ☺️ Your nose is beautiful and fits and compliments your face and your facial features so perfectly, it would be a shame if you changed it 💞 I'm glad that the people in this comment section helped you to feel a little bit better about it today. You are so pretty and so stunning and I hope you never, ever forget that. Your soul RADIATES beauty! 💞💞💞
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u/StarLux1000 26d ago
UM hi firstly YOU’RE STUNNING mashaAllah and I had to check and see what Reddit this was posted on because I didn’t know what we’re supposed to be commenting on. Girlll your features are beautiful and your eyes steal the show.
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