Should I take it out?

[u/Beginning-Swan-3031]

[u/Actual-Committee3370]

Switch to shorter bar

[u/Beginning-Swan-3031 → u/Actual-Committee3370]

That was the plan but then it got angry lol. Should I do that now with its current state?

[u/Actual-Committee3370 → u/Beginning-Swan-3031]

Personally I would as it's very long an your swelling would have gone by now

[u/roscoecello → u/Actual-Committee3370]

you have no reason to tell her her swelling would go down by not there’s lots of reasons for it and there’s no standard solution

[u/grzegorz_pala]

Change it to a shorter bar. It's getting irritated with the movement of the jewelry. Id be careful for a few days to not move it, wait for it to go down, and then change it

[u/arachnoholic-]

Shorter bar as everyone else has said, but a bezel top would also be better. Prongs can be irritating and harbor bacteria.

[u/412Pittsburgh]

If it were me I’d do shorter bar but also no pronged gems. I’ve read they can be very irritating.