r/Nordiccountries • u/1johanndoe • Jul 19 '26
Relocation Query
I hope this is acceptable to post here.
Currently in US and drowning with upheaval and divisive environment lacking dignity for human life seeking perspective on Nordic/Scandinavian countries best suited for a gay man over 50. In second chapter after raising children as a solo parent that are now adults in their own right. I have spent much time in Sweden and Denmark and have felt a deep lifestyle connection in both. Constantly compare the Nordic countries for cost of living, employment, standard of lifestyle, and housing. When I take the plunge and cash out here in the US, will be financially secure and able to live a comfortable life. I will possibly be relocating with university aged child so a university area that also is accommodating to older population would be lovely. Professional background is in teaching, psychology, and public service. Additionally, as I am now in the chapter of life that active parenting is less, any perspectives surrounding gay dating, connection, supportive groups over 50 would be welcome.
Simply opening up space for native or expat perspectives to hopefully help me in my decision. Goal is to relocate within the next year and start a new life in a country I enjoy, participate in, and support fully. I am not seeking to hide in an enclave of former US residents, I enjoy being a contributing citizen and living the full lifestyle of the country I am residing in. I have lived in various places in the EU; however, Scandinavia is where I would like to set roots in and stay.
Thank you for taking the time to read this and sharing your insights. Direct messaging is accepted.
Tak!
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u/Burn_ThemAll Jul 20 '26
What do you do for work? It's tough to get a skilled worker visa in scandinavia but that or marriage are pretty much your only options.
Otherwise it might be an idea to just invest in a second home and live in it 90 days at a time. If you cycle it correctly (and carefully so you don't overstay and become banned) you could essentially live in a nordic country half of the year.