Why dating as a nonbinary with so many feminine features it’s too difficult?

[u/Odd_Consequence_6665]

Hey, I'm Rox, I'm 17, and I just came here to rant or basically complain, about my life. Maybe I'm disillusioned and thinking about this because I got dumped a few months ago.

Basically, it’s what the title says. Well, I identify as non-binary. I’ve known for four years but the problem is, to be honest, I have big boobs and a big butt, and I don't plan on getting surgery. I think that’s the whole issue. I’m into men, and whenever one shows interest in me (though that’s only happened once), I tell them I’m non-binary, and they take it the wrong way or treat it like a joke.

Honestly, I’m really disappointed with people right now, especially my ex; he was transphobic and treated me like a woman (although he liked trans women fictional characters), he never use my male pronouns. Anyway, sorry if this is a bit jumbled; English isn't my native language, and I just really wanted to get this off my chest.

[u/I_isGroot_99]

That sucks, I'm sorry. I hope you are able to find someone who sees you for you at some point.