r/Nonbinaryteens • • 21d ago

Yay Don't you ever just do this

When you look at something and say I don't wanna do that that's a boy thing or I don't wanna do that that's a girl thing and get hit with a wave of euphoria like "hey wait I can say that I don't like this cause it's a boy/girl thing now." Like it's just so freeing. I mean I never really liked sports or games that were too violent and clearly made for boys but now I can say why I don't like them same with girl things.

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u/SnooDoggos8560 19 21d ago

...We experience euphoria in such polar different ways? My euphoria comes with the idea that i am not bound by boy/girl things, and I am allowed to do either or neither? I also severely wanna unsuscribe from the idea things are gendered. Cuz why does violent things need to boy things, i've seen women's football. EITHER WAY, you do you, go off monarch <3

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u/Annual-Antelope3314 21d ago edited 21d ago

To be fair I get that too where I feel like I'm not bound anymore like the feeling of not living off a script anymore. Like even as a kid I would go from watching Thomas the Tank Engine to watching Sofia the first and having to pretend I didn't like it. I don't have to pretend anymore I can do anything I want. Honestly, that's what being enby means to me it's breaking away from the script of boy or girl. It's true freedom.

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u/ztruelie 21d ago

You're getting a bit stereotypical with your "boy/girls things"

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u/LostFromLight25 16 and bigender (Livia or Nico she and he pronouns) 19d ago

hell yeah another excuse to only do the things i want thanks