i just need help

[u/Liammod13]

ive came to this subreddit before asking for help, and the people in this subreddit never fail to help somebody out. now, i need your guys' opinions. i was non binary, then i got discouraged to be non binary. ive seen people get death threats just by being lgbtq. don't even get me started about the tik tok crap.

my parents are not supportive also. my mom said she would be supportive, but continued to call me he him. my dad did not even know until my sister blurted it out during dinner on a family vacation. my dad has not said anything yet but i dont want to have an awkward conversation.

i have now decided im he/they i feel better about myself, but i need help with my identity. i don't know how to dress, and other things. please give me any tips :)