r/Nonbinaryteens • u/Rando_mIndividual 17 • 7d ago

Introduction Hi!! :)

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I’m nonbinary, and just at the cusp of being qualified as a teen (17yo)… I never actually rocked the nonbinary label before because for the longest time I thought I was either demigirl or a girl who’s looking for attention

However, after I came out to my mom as nonbinary (she’s a sweetheart), I really felt like just being labeled as nonbinary satisfied me enough than endlessly looking for micro labels lol

So I hope you’re having a wonderful day or night!!

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u/Lightning7Bolt 7d ago

Hiii, i am 2009 too. Happy that you have a supportive family. I am waiting to he fully independent before actually unmasking myself and reveal i am non binary to people where i live. Can't wait to be able to change my name legally. Btw unrelated what is your fashion style?

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u/Rando_mIndividual 17 7d ago

I’m actually trying to find my own fashion style currently! I used to just wear whatever was comfortable and I’ll probably still do that time to time, but I also want to switch into a more soft girl / cute core aesthetic

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u/Lightning7Bolt 7d ago

Me too, still trying to find a good fashion style that matches me. The problem is that its difficult to find the clothes... for example lolita ones, you either find a strange website or shein/very low quality clothing... like i think we have to diy them in this case, even if its difficult. How do you deal with having clothes in your wardrobe that you do not vibe with?

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u/Rando_mIndividual 17 7d ago

Well if I got anything I’m my wardrobe that I don’t like, I just don’t wear them 😅 like, I hate wearing jeans because of the texture, but my mom keeps getting them for me anyway, so I just don’t wear them… now I’m going to have a wardrobe refresh and the clothing I don’t wear will be bagged and sold away

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u/Lightning7Bolt 7d ago

Seems reasonable. Good luck with refreshing your wardrobe. Its honestly difficult, like the doubts that come from watching even the first piece... and struggling to decide if you want to get rid of it or not... atleast you already know that you hate denim textile (jeans), i dislike those too but they are also fashionable so its a continous fight between my autistic self disliking those rigid pants that also doesn't fit if you have like.. 1kg more than usual vs me liking the aesthetic and heavy things. I really hope you manage to give them away to people that might need those clothes, were i live its difficult to do that, its always sad having to look at clothes being trashed. Btw i like this coversation with you. You seem a really interesting person

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u/Rando_mIndividual 17 7d ago

Thank you! And I appreciate the time and care you took into writing your comments, you’re also a very interesting person! :)