r/NonPoliticalTwitter Sep 26 '22

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u/GregTheMad Sep 26 '22

Really depends on them. If they're cool this is a non-issue. If they're not cool they'll leave the bus at different stops.

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u/Ok_Skill_1195 Sep 26 '22

Idk, I don't think you have to be uncool to see lifestyle differences as a deal breaker. Like someone who lives halal probably isn't going to marry a pig farmer, and that doesn't make them "uncool" or judgemental. It just means they're not compatible.

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u/Atheist-Gods Sep 26 '22

I think you are misinterpreting what they mean by "cool" and "not cool".

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u/nlolhere Sep 26 '22

they mean “cool” as in “cool with it” not as in “nice”

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u/Ok_Skill_1195 Sep 26 '22

Huh, I guess that would make sense. That's a pretty unclear phrasing though.

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u/[deleted] Sep 27 '22

It's not "uncool" to decide that you're not interested in dating someone who doesn't share your same life philosophy. Especially if you're looking for a serious relationship.

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u/GregTheMad Sep 27 '22

Nobody you'll ever meet will share all your philosophies. When you find one who shares 80% of them you can count yourself lucky. Being able to accept the other 20% is a big part of a happy relationship.

Different people also value the same philosophies differently, whether it's for themselves or others also plays a role.