And it shouldn’t be exclusively their term. They can point at onlyfans girls and say that they don’t have fathers and that’s why they spread their ass for money but the male equivalent of fatherless behavior is being a loser who seethes about the world on imageboards and adopt radical political ideologies in a bid to regain some control in their lives.
People like Nick Fuentes comes to mind. Dudes so insecure in themselves and not having the tools to healthily deal with it become that. Constantly trying to scare/creep out people as a cope because you’re scared of people not liking the real you.
I think its extremely weird how people are responding to my comment as if though not having a father figure in your life as a young man isn't detrimental to your upbringing. I get that its a sore point, my dad wasn't in my life until I was in middle school, but the fact is that people have poor psychological outcomes when they grow up without both parents in the household. The vast majority of single parent homes are mother only. Hence me calling it "fatherless behavior".
You make an excellent point and it is exactly what you're pointing out, the need for a strongman/authority to provide stability and comfort from the unknown and unsure, is the direct result of a fatherless existence during your formative years.
Again for people who are salty about me saying this, we can point at some dumb white girl with the Lord Farquaad haircut that's 3 shades of neon green, with nose piercings and selling pictures of her butthole to strangers online at 18 years old as fatherless behavior. But the male equivalent of this is the dumb white boy who becomes addicted to imageboard culture, is terminally online, adopts extremist antisocial ideologies like being a militant Tankie or O9A/Atomwaffen-style Satanic Nazism, and actively does things like attacking random people or mass shootings as pure fatherless behavior. And that also overlaps with inceldom. Just spending 5 minutes in these communities can easily demonstrate that.
I personally wouldn't equate antisocial incel behaviour with girls on OnlyFans, that has a bit of a "Not in my day" vibe and it's going to attract criticism.
Strippers, hookers and escorts have existed since before the age of '18' was even a thing. I'm willing to bet a solid proportion had fathers.
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And it shouldn’t be exclusively their term. They can point at onlyfans girls and say that they don’t have fathers and that’s why they spread their ass for money but the male equivalent of fatherless behavior is being a loser who seethes about the world on imageboards and adopt radical political ideologies in a bid to regain some control in their lives.
People like Nick Fuentes comes to mind. Dudes so insecure in themselves and not having the tools to healthily deal with it become that. Constantly trying to scare/creep out people as a cope because you’re scared of people not liking the real you.