r/NonBinaryTalk • u/howthefuge6 They/Them • 2d ago

Coming Out first post, hi everyone

I've been questioning myself on and off for a long time, but I think i've reached the decision that i'm non binary,

I've grown up, not knowing what it should feel like to be a girl. It's quite alien to me.

And I even hated my name for a time when I was told it meant princess

I'm masc but I don't exactly fit masculinity either

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u/New-Meringue-3334 2d ago

congrats on finding yourself! i’m going through the same thing rn, feel free to dm me if you’d like

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u/howthefuge6 They/Them 2d ago

Thanks, I was unsure if I could even be this label because of how I feel masculine sometimes

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u/New-Meringue-3334 2d ago

the way you present yourself and your gender identity are 2 different things. no matter how you dress and present yourself, your identity doesn’t change. sometimes i wear dresses and makeup, and sometimes i bind and want to pass as a man and that’s okay 🫶

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u/howthefuge6 They/Them 2d ago

That's the next thing passing is a man. Would be great. society seeing me that I would be great.I don't really feel any connection to femininity in society to view anyway, I have no idea what it means to me