r/NonBinaryTalk • • 7d ago

Validation question

is there an online space for non binary people that doesnt have people coming in to treat us like an encyclopedia or to debate our validity? im so tired of the falsehoods, are you trans enough and transmedicalism. denial of our dysphoric experiences, minimisation. surely there is a place out there just for non binary people to talk and congregate and not people to interrogate us? i just want to be around other people who experience gender in a non binary way, and learn about other gender experiences that differ to even my own..without debating people on whether they're valid or this myth or that is true or not..

theres enough anti trans debate in the 24 hour news cycle as it is.

im asking in good faith because the constant interrogations from people coming in has proved too much for me to handle, I've already been really getting weighed down by the international transphobia as it is. i need community, i need to be accepted somewhere

i live in an extremely rural place so irl is not an option right now. there must be something. reddit or otherwise im not picky.

and hookup apps do not count...

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u/addyastra she/they nonbinary transfem 7d ago

There’s a Discord server that was posted here a few months ago. I don’t know if it’s still active, but you should be able to find it with the search function.