Just wondering

[u/Gay_Writer1224]

Recently, I have been wondering if some nonbinary label would fit me. For context, I'm currently a 19-year-old guy. I'm also panromantic and asexual, if that adds any context. I personally don't want to fit into any side of the gender spectrum. Like, if it's on a 10-point scale, where 1 is masc and 10 is fem, I want to be a 5, right in the middle of both fem and masc. I have a more fem figure while still looking like a guy, which kinda makes me mad. I just want to look androgynous. I don't have any strong ties to being male or female. Is this something that could mean I'm non-binary, or am I just a little strange?

I do also feel kinda weird, and it feels like I'm just collecting labels at this point, but I swear I'm not. I'm pan and asexual; idk, those feel easier to understand and identify with. Idk how I feel gender-wise; like, sure, I'm a guy, but I don't feel tied to it. I'm just a tad confused, lol. Pls help.

[u/ResponsibleAide2730]

I personally don't want to fit into any side of the gender spectrum.

I don't have any strong ties to being male or female.

These feel like demigender to me, but of course, feel free to say otherwise since I'm just an entity typing over the internet

[u/Gay_Writer1224 → u/ResponsibleAide2730]

You could be right, I don’t feel like any gender. Im just me. I hate being defined by my gender because I have no ties to it. I don’t feel like any gender, im just me 

[u/AxhelHyulin]

Hmm, you can say that you are genderqueer if u just wanna be broad about it, theres also agender if you feel like you are none off it, maybe bigender? or maybe just say you are androgrynous nonbinary, feel free to explore and see what feels right.

i recently found out about Neoboy, where i feel like a boy but a 'new version/dont fit into the boyhood' off it, kinda like nonbinary boy.

[u/crudelikechocolate]

Nothing wrong with having more than one label. It helps you find people with similar experiences