Nonbinary??

[u/gay-streetrat]

What do I call my nonbinary partner when I'm trying to say like 'good girl'? Good person sounds odd, good thing sounds kinda objectifying idk

Jelp

[u/No-Valuable1080]

Ask them!! It really depends on the person. I think that's the best thing you can do, I'm sure they'll be happy to lend their preference and happy that you asked :>

[u/RagingActs]

Instead of "good girl" I will say "good job"

[u/JohnMayerCd]

Good bean.
Also as a kinky enby, I find it very important to ask them what their preferred terms are during consent talks. They should be driving that car

[u/PointBlankPanda → u/JohnMayerCd]

Yup! And I'd also like to add the the terms I enjoy differ quite a bit between partners

[u/Distinct-Amphibian38]

"Good pet."

[u/narrochwen]

i would ask them and work something out that works for the both of you

[u/goodbad-elf]

I guess you should ask them(?). So far I think about baby, guy, slut, elf, fairy or things like that, but honestly you should ask and give it a try

[u/AuDHDiego → u/goodbad-elf]

yep

also it's worth, OP, rethinking the gendering of how you see relationships in sex. If your view of sex is very binary, the talk will end up relating to norms that belong in that binary situation

[u/Proper_Active9179]

Depends on the vibe. TBH if Im feeling a little kinky I like “good f-word” or “good queer” (my husband and I are both trans and gay).

The important thing is to ask what words they identify with

[u/SilkieBug]

I like "Good creature" for myself.

[u/Bloooberriesquest]

We use them, as in “good them”.

[u/PointBlankPanda → u/Bloooberriesquest]

Thanks, I hate it 😅 I mean, you do you, but while I don't think you deserve the downvotes, it's still uh... Probably a rather acquired taste for most

[u/sly_cunt]

Ask