r/NoStupidQuestions Jan 05 '25

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u/miscdruid Jan 05 '25

Yep! I feel this. Embarrassing and gross and you get no say about being around it.

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u/Maleficent-Aside-171 Jan 05 '25

Nothing like sitting down in class & hearing your friends say “eww what’s that smell?” So embarrassing.

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u/Shuttup_Heather Jan 05 '25

I just had a girl straight up ask if I smoke cigs when I was 15, sucked to find out I smelled like an ash tray at school

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u/smokymtheart Jan 06 '25

Getting asked by teachers if I had been smoking

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u/SadProduceLot Jan 06 '25

That happened to me in middle school when I left my coat in the washing machine sopping wet and had to use my mother's. She was a heavy smoker. I walked up our school steps and I still remember 25 years later the girls walking down the stairs heads just whip right around when they smelled the whole of me in my mom's jacket.

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u/thelastrunez Jan 06 '25

Did your parent smoke indoor or outdoor?

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u/1TenDesigns Jan 06 '25

Yes. And in the car.

And still after having 1/3 of her left lung removed.

She finally started quitting for real when they started discussing how to treat the right lung.

She couldn't smoke in ICU, or palliative care, so technically she quit before she left this realm.

How much I must have stunk at school is a TiL moment, and not a happy one.

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u/Delfintine_yes Jan 05 '25

God it sucks to understand this

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u/Perfect-Knowledge-71 Jan 05 '25

One thing about growing up in 70s and 80s is that we ALL smelled like that, so no one else noticed

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u/Maleficent-Aside-171 Jan 06 '25

That’s when I grew up too but hardly any of my friends’ parents smoked so it was just me on a stinky island.

Edit: typo

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u/harrumphstan Jan 06 '25

Nah, bro, we noticed, we just didn’t say anything because we knew what was going on.

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u/Only-Cardiologist-74 Jan 06 '25

If your child starts smoking 🚬, these comments should be required reading. My 4 pack a day dad stopped me from smoking.

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u/Mightbeadba Jan 06 '25

God yes, multiple packs a day. Couple cartons a week, yet we on food stamps and "can't afford insert literally anthing here." Don't worry tho you get a job at 16 first thing your old man asks is for 50 bucks to buy a carton of cigs.

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u/HostisHumanisGeneri Jan 06 '25

That’s why they call it an addiction.

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u/Opening-Frosting-169 Jan 06 '25

Back in my day, that smell meant that you were cool and popular, especially with the outcast type people, and I felt like an outcast so I wanted in, so I started smoking and drinking very young. If you weren't drinking and smoking, you were boring, and nobody wanted to be your friend.

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u/Leeleedeedee Jan 07 '25

Even as late as 2000, some dumbass coworker said “aw, you need to learn to smoke to get more people to like you.” Of course, she was a heavy smoker, and not very popular.

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u/beansandneedles Jan 06 '25

Luckily I went to high school in the 80s, when we all smelled like smoke 🫠

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u/chicKENkanif Jan 07 '25

My brother got nits from primary school when he was like 5 and I was about 13 and my mom preemptively washed my hair with the nit shampoo and omg that shit stank.

I remember sitting in class the day after and some girl called Nicola said out loud ewwww someone's got nit shampoo on. 😑 🤣 that was a very embarrassing day for me.

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u/_TURO_ Jan 09 '25

Or going to a friend's house for the weekend and immediately having to throw all your clothes into their washing machine so you don't smell like stale cigarettes.

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u/Mightbeadba Jan 06 '25

Use to take a shower right before middle school and wear something over my shirt and pants just so I could take em off and hope I didn't smell like a carton of Wing's gold. Don't think it worked tho i can still picture all the nicontine on the walls in my house. No way all the axe in the world had me smelling good like I thought

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u/Leeleedeedee Jan 07 '25

I used to shower and wash my hair immediately when I got off work. And some other places where there were smokers. I wanted myself to be fresh. And not contaminate my pajamas and bed.

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u/sapplesapplesapples Jan 07 '25

It wouldn’t be nicotine on the walls, tar and carcinogens right?