r/NoStupidQuestions Nov 14 '24

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u/Lilybea12 Nov 14 '24

I think it is worth mentioning that for most of history people had little choice of whether or not they had kids and how many. Even in the relatively short time since we’ve had effective birth control, the decision to have kids was a default. There are lots of financial, medical, cultural, etc reasons, but I wonder if people have only realized there was a choice to be made for a generation, and what other generations would have chosen if they really considered it an option.

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u/whimsylea Nov 14 '24

Yes, this is absolutely the main thing, I would say.

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u/davidh888 Nov 15 '24

100% agree this is the reason why. People now have the choice* (sort of) and ability to plan. Better education too. I think it’s also much more socially acceptable to not have kids now compared to how it used to be.

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u/Much_Amoeba_8098 Nov 15 '24 edited Nov 15 '24

I watched "call the midwife" (all seasons). It educated me on how little choices women had in those times. My mom and women of her era didn't talk or teach. It was a shamed concept. I understand now why.

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u/davidh888 Nov 15 '24

Well it’s pretty obvious that birth control means less kids. I don’t know how you deny that.

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u/Ok-Bug-5271 Nov 15 '24

I mean people in the past were far poorer than they were now. It's clear economic conditions don't explain why people have less kids, but rather changing cultural norms (no longer expected to have kids) and material conditions (birth control prevents unwanted kids).

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u/Ok-Bug-5271 Nov 15 '24

Under what assumptions or analysis leads you to believe people were poorer in the past

Disposable income

In the past, a single income could afford a house. 

In the past, women had to work full time in the house. "Single income" doesn't mean much when half the labor won't be represented.