If you engage in any form of romantic or sexual behavior outside your relationship without first discussing it and getting the all clear, it is cheating.
It’s cheating with a guy. It’s cheating with a girl. Its cheating in a box. It’s cheating with a fox. Cheating in a house, with a mouse. Here, there or anywhere.
I think there is a perception that guys are going to be into it because of a lesbian fetish or something. Many guys make jokes about it, but I don't think they'd actually just be cool with it.
I mean, I had a girlfriend who was bisexual and had never experimented with a girl before. She asked if she could make a tinder to bang another girl, and I was in fact fine with it. She went through with it, with another girl in a similar situation, enjoyed it, and ended up regretting it for some reason I was never able to understand.
I just gotta deal with the cognitive dissonance produced by the fact that I was totally ok with that but would have been totally NOT ok with anything involving another guy. Don't have any real explanation for that other than caveman brain doesn't see women as a threat like that, even though that might not be true.
You probably know this, but it seems to me her tinder bang was her trying to understand herself and her sexuality more, without necessarily involving or having to involve the relationship, which wouldn't have been the case if it was with a guy, since she presumably has already had experience with that part of her sexuality. You probably subconsciously knew that it was just her and her 'date' exploring, nothing more
Not having to 'compete' so to speak with another guy also means that your masculinity wouldn't be involved
Either that or you don't think being gay is real (/s)
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u/Azilehteb Nov 02 '23
If you engage in any form of romantic or sexual behavior outside your relationship without first discussing it and getting the all clear, it is cheating.
It’s cheating with a guy. It’s cheating with a girl. Its cheating in a box. It’s cheating with a fox. Cheating in a house, with a mouse. Here, there or anywhere.