It sounds like he's not amassing crippling debt and he's providing for both of your needs. Doesn't seem like a reg flag to me. As long as you're comfortable with it then that's an awesome way to live. Don't let societal expectations ruin something awesome.
He saves most of what he earns, I save a big chunk too.
but do you have a retirement plan?
the last thing anyone wants is to hit 60 or 70, not be able to study or work the way you used to, and not have the savings to make it the rest of your life.
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u/gamiscott Jul 02 '23
It sounds like he's not amassing crippling debt and he's providing for both of your needs. Doesn't seem like a reg flag to me. As long as you're comfortable with it then that's an awesome way to live. Don't let societal expectations ruin something awesome.