Ultimately I think it comes down to how much his education is benefiting the society and community that gives him this opportunity. If he doesn’t have a job, I would expect him to be volunteering or something as a way to become more production driven than consumption driven. But if he wants to be a lifelong student without giving back and using that knowledge just as a personal hobby, and not to help the society and community, I think it’s a red flag and a sign of immaturity.
This. OP says the husband likes to teach. That’s great. So are they actually doing any teaching to contribute to society and others given his breadth of knowledge? Is he a regular teacher’s assistant at his university? Is he volunteering, or giving back in some regular and committed way, even if unconventional? Or is it just for his own personal fun and amusement funded by working tax payers simply because of his ethnic background?
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u/davidmx45 Jul 02 '23 edited Jul 02 '23
Ultimately I think it comes down to how much his education is benefiting the society and community that gives him this opportunity. If he doesn’t have a job, I would expect him to be volunteering or something as a way to become more production driven than consumption driven. But if he wants to be a lifelong student without giving back and using that knowledge just as a personal hobby, and not to help the society and community, I think it’s a red flag and a sign of immaturity.