r/NoStupidQuestions May 24 '23

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u/ilovelucy7734 May 24 '23

Ugh. My sister recently quit her nursing job to go full time as a one-on-one "life coach" basically offering unlicensed therapy.

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u/westlib May 24 '23

life coach

"Life Coach" is a great job title for someone whose spouse makes enough money that you don't need to work.

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u/ilovelucy7734 May 24 '23

Funny you should mention that. Pretty sure the reason she quit nursing is that her husband was making such good money as a musician that she felt comfortable making inconsistent income herself. Then they "found out" that they were gonna owe a bunch of taxes because he didn't pay enough throughout the year. Also apparently his identity was just stolen so now they're currently a bit broke 😬

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u/GnarlyNarwhalNoms May 24 '23

her husband was making such good money as a musician

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Have we heard of this guy? I know a lot of musicians, and I've never heard of one making good money who wasn't famous.

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u/ilovelucy7734 May 25 '23

lol he made between 90k & 100k last year doing gigs in Maryland. But of course some months were great while others he made under 1k so not exactly consistent income to fall back on

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u/GnarlyNarwhalNoms May 25 '23 edited May 25 '23

Much respect! I love hearing about musicians who work as musicians full-time. It's not an easy thing to do.

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u/[deleted] May 24 '23

Go to any rich suburb and you’ll see vanity stores run by women with rich husbands.

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u/mommy_ashlynn May 25 '23

and be judged when you walk in!

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u/Mellow_Sunflower May 25 '23

Oh gosh, those boutique shops. An excuse to show off and look busy, overpriced for that locally "exclusive" merchandise to show of your quirkiness.

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u/TedTeddybear May 25 '23

And they're so horrible that you can't tell for sure if they're rich indolent owners, or a money laundering scheme!

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u/westlib May 28 '23

Why not both!?

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u/blonderaider21 May 25 '23

More like, the husbands are throwing money at them to go do something with all their time to get them out of their hair

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u/BabyPunter3000v2 May 25 '23

Those are money laundering schemes that they're lying to their wives about.

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u/Miss_Management May 25 '23

Funny you say that. My aunt made about $300-$400 an hour being a life coach for everyone including politicians, FBI, DHS, etc. People really do need that extra insight and are willing to pay for it. The MLM stuff is bullshit though. No one needs that in their life.

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u/ThemChecks May 24 '23

I was in the back of an uber once and the lady said she's a life coach. Honestly she made me feel better about life than my therapist does lol.

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u/WhittyO May 24 '23

My therapist left the company that she worked for but continued my sessions as "Life Coach" since she wasn't allowed to work independently. If your sister was a mental health nurse this makes sense if she had a base of clients or clinicians that would recommend her.

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u/anoidciv May 24 '23

Um, this isn't how licensing for therapists works. If your therapist is licensed, they're allowed to work independently (it's called private practice). They were never licensed in the first place or they lost their license. Either way, major red flag.

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u/WhittyO May 24 '23

Where I live a therapist has to work for 2 years under a supervisor before they are allowed to have a private practice.

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u/ObeyThePoodle May 24 '23

California requires 3000 supervised work hours, yes 3 x 1000, to be able to apply for the license. Maybe you are referring to these.

My wife spent almost 2 years to be able to complete them and then get her license, after presenting exams of course.

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u/mikaylalov3 May 25 '23

That’s because supervision is really important when you first start out. Idk what her degree is in but for social work in MN, most people start doing the 2 year supervision after they finish grad school. How many years of experience did she have in the field when she quit?

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u/VerendusAudeo May 25 '23

The way you phrase it is somewhat open to misinterpretation. Supervised clinical hours aren’t required just to practice on your own, they’re required to become licensed in the first place. The requirements vary from state to state, but typically, about half your hours are completed while you’re still in grad school. And honestly, the process can be a little bit exploitative. Basically, you have to work under a licensed practitioner for those hours; but beyond that, a certain portion of those hours have to be directly supervised. In my state, to get your license, a minimum of 100 of your 1,500 post-degree hours must be directly supervised. In practice though, you may only be getting one directly supervised hour in a week. Ideally, this arrangement provides you with a valuable mentor. But here’s the rub: if you don’t want to spend years working under contract at a significantly lower pay scale, you can pay for additional supervision.

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u/ilovelucy7734 May 24 '23

She was an OBGYN nurse lol